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Its easy for everyone to tell you not to stay, and to get out, and leave... Dont get me wrong, thats what you should do. But theres more to it than that, when you heart is involved. But now that a child is involved, you are thinking for 2. Not just you. There are lots of places you can go to get help. And Im sure you will. When you leave him, you will go back to him a number of times before you realize you dont need him. You have to be strong within yourself. You have to want better. And deep down in your heart... You have to tell yourself, that you dont need him... Good luck Hon....
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have you thought about adoption? my husband and i are aloving couple and cant have any biological children. we would love to welcome your baby into our home and give it everything that it could ever want! we would also want you to be apart of the childs life and send you pictures and even visit! PLEASE e-mail me at wannabe_mommy1100@yahoo.com
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just a question ladies from a man. i grew up in a very abusive home and watched my mother, siblings as well as me being beaten very often. my mother would leave then go right back. The question is this- why do you all stay with men like that? most say because of love. come on ladies, these men do not love you, if they loved you then they would not lay a hand on you in violence. i have been married now for 5 yrs. second wife. (first wife caught cheating), anyways, on both occasions i would never even think about raising a hand to them. not even when i caught my first wife cheating. i am 5'8 and 190. my wife is 5'4 and 110 soaken wet. i would kill her if i hit her. get some sence, get some backbone and leave these guys. you were fine before you met them, you will be fine if you leave them. there are actually guys that do not hit. if he hit you once, he will hit you again and again and again.
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ok now i know this is hard to believe but i am 18 and 28wks pregnate with my ex-boyfriends baby. i have been with this guy since i was 14 and have been abused ever since. my suggestion to you would be to get a restraining order against him. i know that it will be hard to leave him but if you love yourself and your baby you know in your heart that it will be best for you and your baby. it took me four years to learn that but if i would of stayed with this guy(6'' 2.5, dark and beautifull) no matter how attracted or in love i was with him my baby could of been the one hurt. you have to realize that your baby is an innocent bystandard in this situation and it is now your resonsibility to give this baby a chance. GO TO THE POLICE FOR HELP!!! it will be hard i promise but your life and childs life truelly depend on it. they will help you. get a cell phone from ACOVA.(or whatever your victims advocate a__sosiation is) they will help you. they did for me and the b___d is in prison. domesic violence is a big crime and takenvery seriously. I KNOW it will be hard, i still stuggle with it everyday but i know my baby will grow upi much happier, healthier, and stonger. if you ever want to talk meghan_maynes@hotmail.com
add me to messenger or e-mail me
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I have the same problem and I hate it, I am really starting to worry about what is going to happen to me in the future, I wanted to have his kids and be with him for the rest of my life, I love him so much, but it doesn't feel like he loves me at all anymore, I get hit or kicked or something and it makes me feel like my life doesn't matter anymore because the person I want to be with beats me. I thought I was pregnent and for a min there I thought he wanted it, so I thought that would fix his anger problem, but it didn't and I ended up getting kicked in the stomuch, now I am on my period and I am having the worst pain ever where I got kicked at. I don't know what to do, I am scared and feel so alone, maybe that is because I am alone and always will be!
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oh, stephanie!!! I just turned 30 y/o. I have a 12 y/o son. His father went to prison for beating the c___p outta me when my son was almost 2...for 3 years. Your boyfriend can only get help if he WANTS to. If my son's father didn't go to prison, I prolly wouldn't be here today. I thought i was in love, but really i loved the idea of being in love. Please don't put your baby through this. Because one day your child could wake up w/out ANY parents. My son's father's "prison" experience woke him up. He says he will never go back, and it's been almost 8 years since he's had police contact. He's married and has never laid a hand on his wife. And we've been able to raise our son in a positive way. Give your child a chance to live a better life.
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Please Stephanie, for your child's sake get away from him..Ive heard all those broken promises too, but they wont get better..you have to be strong even though you think you love him there should be no love greater than the love you have for your child! Seek some help from your community or family if you need shelter and a__sitance.
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Talking to Traci, February 17, 2006, 0:55
Traci when you have been kicked in the stomach by a man that thinks you are pregnant would indicate that man is trying to kill the baby and you. You could be bleeding internally or even having a miscarrage not a period as you think. Have you been checked out by a doctor to make sure you are ok and have no medical problems? Also a man that hits, kicks and beats you up is not a sign of someone that loves you but abuses you. You are his whipping post! Is that really what you want for your life? A life of heart break and misery? Which would also happen to your future children you may have together if he doesn't cause you to miscarry first. Also being treated with disrespect by him causes lack of self-esteem, is this what you want? Traci you are worth more than that. That is why you were created. Remember you are never alone. First there is your God who loves you unconditionally. There is your family who loves you unconditionally. Have you told your mother and asked for her help. I bet she loves you unconditionally too and would be there to help you. Just reach out and trust your family and God please. Even get help from Domestic Violence Center.
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You ARE LOVED! I believe GOD our FATHER sees/hears/feels what you are going through and that HE will redeem your situation because HIS WAYS ARE HIGHER THAN OUR WAYS HIS LOVE IS ALWAYS PRESENT BECAUSE HE IS: I AM JESUS CHIRST WILL NEVER LEAVE YOU OR FORSAKE YOU HE JUST WANTS YOUR HEART AND HE UNDERSTANDS THE PAIN OF REJECTION, THE LONLINESS, THE TEARS....I ASK FAHTER IN JESUS'S NAME THAT YOUR HOLY SPIRIT WILL BIRTH NEW LIFE, LOVE POWER AND A SOUND MIND TO TRACY IN JESUS CHRIST'S HOLY NAME THAT MAKES TRACY WHOLE. FATHER I ASK THAT YOU WOULD RECONCILE TRACI BACK TO HER MOTHER/STEPFATHER THROUGH YOUR REDEMPTIVE BLOOD SACRIFICE FOR TRULY WE ALL HAVE FALLEN SHORT OF YOUR GLORY i ASK THAT YOU WOULD FORGIVE THIS YOUNG MAN WHO HAS TRUAMATIZED T RACI AND HELP HIM TO SURRENDER HIS HEART TO CHRIST IN JESUS'S NAME. AND FATHER WHILE YOU ARE DOING THIS REDEMPTIVE WORK IN TRACI'S BOYFRIEND LET HER BE RECONCILED TO HER FAMILY THAT LOVES HER SO MUCH. THE PRODIGAL SON COMES TO MIND WHEN HE CAME TO HIS SPIRITUAL SENSES HE REALIZED THAT HE HAD A LOVING FAHTER, MOTHER AT HOME WHO WOULD FORGIVE AND THEN BLESS HIM UPON HIS RETURN. TRACI MAY THE FATHER BLESS YOU AND KEEP YOU AND CAUSE HIS FAVORABLE COUNTENANCE TO SHINE DOWN UPON YOU AND BLESS RECONCILE EVERYTHING IN YOUR LIFE BACK INTO HIS GOOD GRACE (UNMERITED FAVOR) i ASK THIS ALL BECAUSE WHAT JESUS DID FOR ME IN MY YOUNGER DAYS. LORD JESUS CHIRST I GIVE YOU ALL THE PRAISE FOR THE NEW LIFE/BLESSINGS YOU HAVE IN STORE FOR TRACI
RECIEVE HIS LOVE MERCY AND GRACE TRACI AND BE BLESSED!!
KATHLEEN RUSSELL
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This is to all the ladies,
I pray that god will keep each one of you safe and protected. That he will show what each of you need to do to be safe and make right choices. That God will bless you with his path, wisdom, knowledge, discrenment, and understanding guiding you with each decession you have to make. I pray for answered prayers, financial blessings and a support system to get you through. Go to your chruch they can help with free counceling. I will pray for each one of you to have his angels around you protecting you, to reach out for help either by family, friends, the church, domestic vilence office, police filing a report so you will be protected. God Bless each and everyone of you.
One of god's angels praying for you
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