Pregnant And A Single Mom
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oK ! I was married to a marine for four years and got pregnant when he got back for iraq with my now 3yr old daughter.We got a divorce last year cause he said he did not love me.Well a few months later I met a really nice guy who said the right things and swept me off my feet.i let my daughter meet him and he asked us to move in a short time later.A few months later I found out I was pregnant and he was ok with it at first .But now that Im 13 weeks away from my due date he has broken the relationship off saying he does not love me and he wants his old life back and im not "the One".This is the second time this has happened to me.Im 26 and really scared.Can someone please give me advise.
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im sorry for whats happening in your life and you childrens. i dont have any advise except you need to be very careful in the future. im sure you are a great mother and person. but you do need to realise what damage can be done to small children when witness to a handful of different man and relationships. for instance- my mother has been married 4 times with countless number of boyfirends. all growing up she would move her men in with us or us wiht them and i would seem as soon as i got close to any of them they would break up. i heard soo many of her fights and seen some too. i didnt have a rold model to look to as far as showing me what a healthy relationship should be. kids need stability in theire life ti become well rounded adults. i am just finding my stability at 29. im sorry that for some reason you fall for guys that choose to hurt and abondon you. you dont deserve it, and neither do your inocent children. i wish you the best.~~jessica
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he was the first person i chose to date since my divorce.She has only been intraduced to him only ..it was months after my divorce till I started to trust a man and to date.And he then told me that he loved me and one day wanted to marry me and then here recentley changed his mind.So it could have happened at any point in the relationship weather i dated him a long time or not.
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hunny- iswear i am not judging your disicion. im sorry
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its ok im just really scared and confused about alot of thing ..right now I just hurt...
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It's possible that he's just getting scared because your due date is so close. Maybe it's just all hitting him now.. a big reality check that the baby is right around the corner. Give him a little more time and space. Maybe he'll come around.
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I'm so sorry that you have to deal with all this drama at such an emotional time. Remember, You're 26 not 16, YOU CAN DO THIS!!!! If he chooses not to be a real man and step up then to hell with him. I promise you, that it will eventually be the biggest mistake he ever made. Besides, he might just be in freak out mode...Give it some time, he might come around. Better late then never. Best wishes
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