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Lisa - Im really sorry you have to put up with all that. It is frustrating to be the other woman (unfortunately I know all about it) but I she is making the situation so much worse for everyone. Men tend to make a lot of promises when they are hiding something & the other woman wants to believe it all. Once that is taken away and you are left with the baby and he gets off scott free you do feel like lashing out. However, she needs to grow up, she is not funcitoning in the best intrest of the baby. Hope things calm down!

Lisa - im so sorry she continue making things hard. I know you are the one that deserves the sympothy at this point but being the other woman I do understand her frustration when it comes to a man not being there for his child. Sure there is a degree of thats what you get for getting involved with a married man but it is hard none the less. She could really help her situation by not continuing to act so selfish though. Anyway, good luck and I hope things calm down for you!

sorry about the double post things are really weird with my computer lately

new2motherhood....Thanks, I too understand her frustration but I not the one who did this I am not even telling him not to talk to her I say if it is your baby you need to be a man...but I respect a woman who go with the flow though beens you know what you were getting yourself into. She can honestly have him. It would make it easier on me if he would leave. We have a 7 year old daughter and have been off and on for 12yrs. When i got pregnant we were having casual s_x. But when I said i was preganant everything changed.

Lisa, Every time I read from a wife who says she is not demanding her husband stay away from baby, and does not put restrictions on him seeing the baby my heart melts. It gives me hope that maybe in my future the wife in my situation will not keep the conditions on the child and the father as she is now. It hurts to be treated as the plague, I don't want him for my lover but to acknowledge his child as it is growing seems only human. Oh well, either way life goes on for all of us!!! Thank you again for the kindness in your heart!!

Well his my honest opinion, I think he is a no good piece of c___p and he does not deserve you are your baby! I feel bad for his family also. He sounds like a real jerk if he could cheat on his wife for 2 yrs. and never feel sorry about it I don't see him ever doing what right for you and your child! I doubt he will hurt himself over all of this sense it did not bother him any before. This is not your fault, do not blame yourself for his actions just take responsibilty of your own actions and realize you will be raising this child without it's natural father's help! That is enough to worry about, so I would just let him go for good unless you choose to seek child support from him which is a great idea in my opinion, it's only right! Good luck to you and please stay away from married men!

but if you are sleeping with a married man you are asking for whatever troubles you get. S_x can lead to babies if you can not accept that stop having s_x. Woman like most of you give real ladies a bad reputation!!!!

The woman is not the only one to blame here. These shiftless men need to be put on fire too. You can't masturbate and become pregnant.

so many females (I refuse to say ladies) are willing to give it up to anyone paying them a little attention. ITS JUST PLAIN PATHETIC!

There is nothing more bitter than a woman scorned, huh?!

i am not bitter i am annoyed that in addition to all the normal issues in a marriage i have to worry about what desperate chick is trying to get a piece from my man cause she can't find her own. What would you all do if your babies grew up and behaved this way, wouldn't ya be embarra__sed?

I dont see why so many of you are bitter towards these other women and keep saying "do your homework next time." Obviously you didnt do your homework to see who you were marrying.. Not all these ladies were getting pregnant to hold it over your mens heads.We are all grown ups here so we need to act like it. Calling names and blaming the world for your problems is only showng that you are childish and immature. There are so many men out there that would be more then willing to take on a nice lady and her prize package. To the other ladies: if he doesnt want anything to do with your child then consider him paying child support.If you feel you can do it on your own then do it. Dont try to wreck their marriges because he wont be with you. ( i doubt you are though). And as for the wives: if you cant handle the fact that your husband cheated and you just cant bring yourselves to trusting him again then get a divorce. If you feel there is something to work out then good luck to you all. Its just so embarra__sing to come on a site and see how many ladies are at each others throats because of men.We are all independant. Wives: these other ladies are not pregnant by your husbands so stop being so mean to them. Other women: Same thing. Your not pregnant by their husbands so stop acting like its their fault your in this situation.

Annoyed, trust me. No one wants your man. This other lady is not trying to get him , shes trying to get back at him for leaving her in that situation. There are so many other men out there who are not married. Why would she want a dirt bag like him when she just found out he was married and wasnt even man enough to tell her?

2cents- that was like a dollar worth in my opinion. All very well said...thank you!

New2Motherhood, no problem.

Disgusted, You know, you really should try to act a little more your age. Unless you are a teen. In this case i think im just going to go click the poor taste and once theyve blocked you from posting anything else on this site, i will congradulate you on your immaturity.