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If you are married to a cheater the only real difference between you and the mistress is a ring...at what point are you letting yourself be just another "other woman"?

I rather enjoy this too..but I would like to correct you..nobody should ever hold anything against the child, the wife knows it is not her bi child but it is her stepchild and I know many women and men who do love their stepchildren I do believe that you can not accept the fact that the wife is ok with everything and will accept this child as part of HER family...A real wife would

He trys to come back ALL THE TIME! I told him to go home to the woman that makes him so unhappy...that is what he deserves. But if it helps you sleep to think you "won" go for it...ya got yourself a real prize sweetie!

She says no contact...she is ridiculous. Despite my crabbing on here I have been beyond civil to her and she really just sees it as a matter of winning and losing. She was not willing to lose to the less attractive other woman.

Yes I admit it...I am less attractive than her. Mainly in the stereotypical sense because she is very thin pet_te and I am a little more curvy. So the whole conversation about the fat, ugly mistress earlier was kinda funny to me!

What a mess men can make of things!!!!

You're a stupid b___h, unable to cope with results of your own acts. That's it. Don't believe the c___p others wrote, they just lie to you.

a stranger doesn't like my decisions-c___p, now im super sorry!

would everyone who does not have any type of advice that is beneficial to the women who are speaking out for support, etc..find another place to quote your ignorant thoughts because when we are telling our stories it is not to be judged again, it is to help us get through the mistakes that have already been made...and I too have a beautiful son so there is no comparison between having the "man" Or your child becuae I love my child more than I ever loved him. These men are the problem and that is the real truth, and as one posting said, that they try to come back all the time, you were right to advise him to go back to the "wife" that makes him so unhappy..because if they are that truly unhappy then they would really leave before bringing another woman in to the picture....so to the ones that really want to talk and get some support there are those like me that are here to truly help and listen ..EVEN OUT OF MESS GOD WILL BLESS....Thanks

So your husband cheated to huh!? At least your not bitter. Sounds like your coping really well with it!!!!!

Sounds like someone on this is really mad at the world. Whoever responded to the pa__ser by. Sounds like you were just screwed and left. You are Not coping with it very well. So sorry!!!

It's really not just the man fault....its the ladies that do say no the first time or when they find out.....when you and everyone else start saying NO then they will stop cheating, duh!!!

Dido to Understanding! And you are right Lisa it is a mess on here. There are very real and serious situations that need figured out on here and all the back and forth bantering is getting us know where (although there have been a few good lines here and there ;) I have yet to see any of the "other woman" insult the wives to the degree that the wives have insulted the other woman...and as the other woman I know (at least in my case and a couple others) there is plenty of room for some serious fingure pointing. IT IS THE MANS FAULT...and as Dr.Phil would say HE NEEDS TO OWN IT!

is it still all the mans fault when the other woman tells the man that "even if you decide to go back to your wife, I do not mind being the other woman." Is it still all on the man?

It is still the mans fault, he is still the one with a commitment to his wife, he is still the one cheating! However, that is a dumb woman with no common sense or cla__s! There is no defense for either persons behavior!

that person just made it sound like it is the mans fault alone. I think it goes both ways. Sure the man has made a commitment, but I think that the other woman should have enough self worth to say "no, I am not going to ever do that, you should go home to your wife, you are a sorry excuse for a man." She should also think about how she would feel if she was the unsuspecting wife. I just think that it should not be put on only the man, but also the other woman