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What about my daughter.....How I am I suppose to tell her her daddy has another little girl? My boyfriend cheat with another woman that knew she had a women. I don't only blame her he is a wrong as she is. But I just wonna know why my daughter has to be hurt cuz.....To grownup made big mistakes. She just couldn't have an abortion cuz that would be right. Like it was right to be sleeping with someone else man.

what amazing women!! be proud of what you have done!!! Hell with the world today why do we need to worry abot morals and respect. Why!! Lets all sleep with everyone!!

i found out last week that my husband has got another women pregnant and she is due in 6 weeks. We have our own son who will be 2 on xmas day. Can i say that its all well and good to have your affairs but you must know that the men on most cases will always stay with there wifes. so i ask why you would put yourself through that sort of relationship let alone have a child. from the wifes point of view i cant even begin to explain the pain and hurt i am feeling its unbearable. to think that someone will have my husbands baby and my son will have a half brother or sister really upsets me. i hope all you girls out there think about the wifes at home cause its not there fault they picked a cheater and why would you want to punish them for yours and his actions. so now i will have to be the single mother. and after everything its my son and i that will suffer. hows is this fair.

These woman have no shame. i am sure you have read some of the postings. I know that the men are wrong and should stay faithful to their wife. but lets get real. There a very very few men that do. the marriages that last 20 + years there was affairs involved also. It does not matter a man is a dog and they will screw whatever they can and some women have NO self respect and will give it to anyone. I am sure not all the women on here are whores but they all should have been more careful, they want sympathy so they post on here to get it and get mad when someone does not give it to them. WhatEVER!!! I feel they are selfish women who do not care about anyones elses feelings. I am sorry for your situation. I wish you all the luck, but i am sure you are a strong women and if you love your husband and want to be with him do it. Do not let some women try to split up your family. You and your child comes first the other woman and the other child will always be second. That is the way it should be. Be strong!!

Firstly i would like to thank the lady who was so nice and understanding. But as for BE WILDERED you have got to be joking dont blame the other women. Im not defending my husbands action but if there wasnt another women i wouldnt be going through this pain and neither would anyone else on this posting, and this site would cease to exist. And no the "other women" in some cases may not have initiated it but they clearly took it on board. and if you want out you get out dont moan about how they tried to get out of it. Oh and i might be happier without my husband but i cant say the same about my childs future. and once they loose there wifes they will try forever to get them back cause the other women may give them what there missing from home (desperate for affection, s_x, ?? ) but once its out in the open its not that exciting and they realise what there lost. and just remember if they are TRULY inlove with the other women they wouldnt go home to there wifes everynight think about that. Its clear from your posting that you are "the other woman " and i hope that you think about your action and the hurt you are leaving on somebodys life.

Screwing another woman's HUSBAND is a HORRIBLE thing to do.

All i can say is what goes around comes back around. And a strong woman wouldn't put up with another woman Man you tell that b___d to go home to his wife or leave her if he LOVES you so much. He can't leave he got to much to loss RIGHT if what he has to loss is more important than the love he has for you How much does he really LOVE YOU ( other woman) At of all this mess my 7yr old daughter has to be hurt cuz it will hurt her cuz another woman KNOWING he had a family decide to have a child. I am not saying he was right for sleeping with her But if we as woman stand strong MEN wouldn't be allowed to be dogs. But as long as there is WHORES i quess there will be DOGS. Pain keep your head up. I know exactly what you are going threw but I not ready to say I am giving up

To understanding... I do believe that you live in a different world. YES everyone KNOWS that it is the mans fault. But if women would stop and think for a minute they would not be dealing with what they are dealing with. And I really hate it for you, no one is saying that it is the childs fault. I truly feel for these children but the truth of the matter is that the child was NOT planned and the men regret what they have done. They will always be the "other" child. I do hope that the men in these situations will do what they are supposed to do and the wives can accept it. Because if the wives want the children in their the child will be.

Ladies, as I said, sorry about the pain the wives are experiencing. Certainly each and every situatio is unique. No, I still believe you cannot blame the other woman. Not all men prefer to stay w their wives, many prefer their lovers. I understand this is difficult to hear .It seems to me a lot of these men are just pathological losers anyway, and your children are better off w/o a father figure than amid a dysfunctional family as yours will become more likely than not. Every woman deserves a man who will treasure them and if your husband treasures another woman, he should have her.

To you know: it is funny to hear you say the men will regret the children because they are not planned.. well if he lays down with another woman unprotected then well that speaks for itself..the world I am living in is the real one and I did not say that it was the mans fault only, I said that the men are the ones who seem to be so protected...Don't not feel sorry for me, I am despite all I have been through, having a good life, and my son has his mother and father, maybe not living together but he will know he is loved..and to tell thte women to stop and think about what they are dealing with, you have no idea lies they hear

Please tell me if the MAN wants his LOVER then why in the hell are you posting in this website. SINGLE & Pregnant? Love to hear the answer to this one. And you really believe that the "other" woman is NOT to blame. Honey, where did hell did you come from. You have got to be kidding me. If there was not some woman willing to spread 'em he would not stray. But since there are so many of then that are the woman they "love" will be at home while the woman they want to just have a quickie with will be by themselves everynight and on holidays and such. Tell me with the Hoildays coming is you "LOVER" planning in spending wiht you or his real family? Woman you are in some serious denial.

ladies don't get so defensive and please keep you sanity in place. this is just an internet forum. if you husband had an affair and you lived happily every after, I am happy for you. in most cases it won't happen. Men don't leave their familiar lives for many reasons, it's not easy to make a drastic change even when u know u'll benefit from it eventually. I am posting in this forum b/c I am bored at work and find this extremely amuzing. I feel for ladies who are going through difficult times but please dont get nasty

My response is in regards to the one who posted that we "other women" come on here for pity....I truly can only speak for myself of course, but coming on here is not about pity. In life there are endless situations that bring about life changes, and a way of working through those occurences is to communicate with others going through same or similar situations. In my own situation I have learned so much and cannot change in any way what is happening to our lives. But on the other hand, I am moving forward and am making huge efforts in my life as well as the life of the man and wife as I continue through my pregnancy. I am sorry for what my selfish actions brought about, and so is he. We were foolish and let ourselves get carried away, and now have mutually decided to go our separate ways yet remain civil to each other as we are both to be the parents of our baby. My child will not suffer as many on the other side of this situation continue to vow and promise. A child learns from their parents and adults in their lives, and although the facts about her conception are not ideal she is still a wanted and loved child and I will not bad mouth her father and will only be positive for her life. Sure as she grows there will be questions and answers that are difficult to provide, but the reality is that children are real, they are innocent, and they learn what we teach them. Not how others label us!!

I agree that the other women and the child will always be second and it will always been know as the "other child" We cant blame the child for being born whatever maybe not but the mothers have some nerve to say there child shouldnt come second they knew all along that there child would never live a normal happy family with mummy and daddy. Of course they regret getting you pregnant they wanted a shag not a child. So why choose to have the child and then have a life time of never being number one. why put yourself or your child through that. So after you shag our husband choose not to protect yourself from falling pregnant, having a a baby and shattering our lives you still want us to except YOUR child as equal. im not sure what goes through your minds clearly nothing. i couldnt care less about the other baby and i i will never have it apart of mine or my families life. I hope all you horrible women live miserable lifes. and just remember if he does it with you he will do it to you. Oh and i find it "extremely amuzing" how you just happen to come by a cheating internet forum. and then seem to be so defendent of the quilty.

I just don't get how the other woman is NOT to blame. I mean, of course it takes 2 to tango and the man is just as responsible/guilty HOWEVER.... if a woman is KNOWINGLY sleeping with a married man she is CONSCIOUSLY choosing to selfishly disrepect another WOMAN!! Thus is indeed, blameworthy!!

I was dating a man for a year and when he found out that i was pregnant he immediately suggested that I should get a aborption. However, I am a strong woman and said no! He said that he would leave me if i wouldn't; yes it hurt for a minute but i thought for a minute that he was not a strong man no ways and could not have the strength to be the man I needed in my child's life anyway. So to your Mama bear let the man walk; dry them tears up because it is time to be a mother.