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i agree with mommy 100%. i think the reason you ladies havent found a nice man to take care of you and love you, is because you have no respect for yourselves. if a man knows that you will sleep with them and they are married, then they know you are completly a " booty call". if you turn him down, men will start to respect you. sometimes you just have to say no. and i really hope you ladies take care of the dirty mouths on this thread before your little ones hear it.

I don't agree with the term "home-wreaker". Obviosly if someone is seeking gratification (s_xual or otherwise) there wasn't a home to wreck. Just my thoughts.

i know this is a heated debate but ive been reading for a while and im just gonna throw my two cents in... in a marraige sometimes there are weak points just like in any relationship... ppl get annoyed or angry for a short term period... it happens.. it does'nt mean they dont love each other.... if in those bad times if a distractions comes along and in a heated moment something hAppens its just stupidity... if a man says hes married but getting out of it.. tell him to call you when hes got divorce papers... and the term home wrecker applies to both parties the man and the woman... but the a__sumption that just because hes looking somewhere else or something must mean that the woman must not keep him happy is just plain ignorant.....

Thank you Jazy for understanding. Its nice to see that there are people out there that understand it isnt a perfect world, and no one is perfect!! to "Mommy" who obviously has issues sorry about your sister... too bad that is not anything i am going through. PEOPLE here are funny!!!!!all I know is look inot your own life before you people called kids b___ds and such. As far as calling us home-wreckers.... obviously the home was wrecked if the husband is looking elsewhere.

Well. I, for one, blame the married man, not the unmarried woman. The one who took the *vows* is the one who made the *commitment* not to cheat. The other person didn't make that commitment. But, ladies, honestly, come on! Any married man that wants to sleep with you is just being a pu$$y. He wants his cake (a stable relationship with the wife) and to eat it too (s_x with a new(er) and exciting partner). I can see a man (or woman, for that matter) having s_x outside of his marriage in the heat of the moment and later regretting it. But, carrying on long relationships on the side? Come on! If he really wanted to leave his wife, he would have already. I had a married man pursue me very heavily a few years back. He was married to a pastor's daughter and told me he didn't want to leave his wife, but wanted to have wilder s_x and felt awkward asking his wife. I told him that was his d__n problem, to either $hit or get off the pot, and that either way it'd be a cold day in he11 before I contemplated getting involved with someone who cheats on the "love of his life" so willingly. Ladies, we are stronger than this!

I have to jump in here. You do have to blame both the man and woman. It isn't fair to just have the "homewrecker" label for the woman. Don't think I don't know anything about this. I was 25 wks preg when I caught my now ex in bed with another woman. When I delivered she was 9 wks preg. I never just pointed the finger at her. I also pointed the finger at him. I left him immediately and filed for divorce the next business day. I went on to finish school and have my DS. He is the most loving child you could have. He has not suffered because of his father and now stepmothers affair. I don't bash either one of them nor have I ever, in front of my DS. As a matter of fact when he asks what happened his father and I both sit down with him. His father is active in his life and my DS is very stable and visitation. Being that I was the one that was cheated on I should have a hardened heart towards my ex, but with a child involved there is no way I can be. My child is the most important person in my life. Unfortunately I do have to say that he has cheated on his now current wife, again his mistress while we were married. I forgot to mention....she was married at the time also. See it's not just the men in the relationship that cheat...women do it also.

actually ksosa, i dont think you have actually met a " real" man. my husband isnt just " horney " all the time and just wants me as s_x. he is my best friend, my companion, and someone to share feelings with. and he feels the same. marriage AND relationships fro that matter is more than just good s_x. it's about love, and trust. not EVERY man is horney all of the time. the reason you may think that is because the ones you have slept with have been married and just wanted more than what they were getting. and just for the record, it's not s_x that me and my husband have, it's love making. and it's very sacred, and not at all to be taken lightly. men and women who take their vows , should mean it, and not take it like it is a game that they can take a break from every now and then and go for someone else.

Actually... ASH...you obviously dont know how to read because u r changing my words around. Thats great u & ur husband make love.... thats amazings congrrrrraats

No one answered my question. If things are so sucky in these mens relationshps, why are they still married to their wives and not with you guys? Obviously there's not too much trouble in paradise or they would have left by now.

wouldnt it be nice if marriage's only consisted of two people (man and woman), and there were no other strings attached... HOUSES,$,CHILDREN.... and so on.... what makes you think it is so easy for a man to jut pick up and leave when there are so many other things that need to be taken care of. When a man has 3 children.... he has to do things the right way and try his hardest not to hurt his children. in the best way possible. i guess I have to repeat myself again since its obviously too hard for certain people to comprehend....YOU DO NOT KNOW the whole situation,the whole story and exactly what is involved... so until you do keep your stupid comments to yourself.

since there are so many of you who dont agree with the term HOMEWRECKER the maybe you would like to be labled BOOTYCALL instead because actually that t_tle fits a little better cause thats what you all were was a Bootycall.

SLOWPOKE.... a two year booty call.... Ha! its called his wife aint makin him happy... thats not my fault that wives let themselves go....physically and in many other ways.... !! if im a booty call then y does he want this baby!!! y was the first thing he did when I told him i was preg. was say to keep the baby... and y is he even more excited about her arrival than I am !! I must be a great BOOTY CALL.... sorry but ur wrong and thats obvious

In fact he does!!!!!!! He is an excellent father and spends all of his free time making his kids happy!! Thats all that counts... ONCE again...you dont know him!!Get over the fact that your husband probably cheats on you because you sit on your fat AS* all days trying to insult people on preg. sites!! You dont know me.. you dont know him!! you dont know his wife!! SO please worry about your own marriage!! OBVIOUSLY there is something wrong since you continue insulting people who are in relationships with married men!

ksosa.... im wondering why you put the blame on the wives.... that they let themselves go.... and on and on.... and pray tell me how old you are.. and what century your living in... if more women were thinking like you then we would still not be able to vote or think for ourselves... just goes to show you how low some women can be... the comparison that i think best suits a woman of your thinking is as follows... when you baby sit someone elses child that love you much more then their parents because you give them endless candy and let them stay up late.... but in the end their parent is STLL their parent.. and in the end they still LOVE their parent and are still WITH their parent... stop lowering yourself to that pathetic level.... and now every d__n man cheats on their wife.. just because your with a b___d doesnt mean other women are too... you know what they say.... ppl fall for ppl at their own level :)...

i never heard that expression before... its so intelligent!! No. not every man cheats... I never said that. & who r u calling an basard??do you know him? or me?? nope you dont. you dont know even 1% of my situation, do u?

i am calling a cheating man a b___d sweetheart.... do you even know your situation ... ??? by the way sarcasm doesnt suit you darling...