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i am calling a cheating man a b___d sweetheart.... do you even know your situation ... ??? by the way sarcasm doesnt suit you darling...

AND.. i have no issues with your situation.. i have issues with you bad mouthing married women just because YOU are not married..... you make it sould like its some womens fault that her man cheated....its wrong either way... a man cheating on a woman has no excuses.. and a woman cheating on a man has no excuses either....

i didnt know that simply stating that some woman let themselves go when they get married is a FACT, its not bashing them! I know that doesnt give men a reason to cheat... BUT i said they let themselves go in other ways besides physically. Many woman dont appreciate their husbands, stop sleeping with them, and yea its true gain like 50 pounds and stop caring how look around their men? Im sorry but until the day I die I would make sure I take care of myself physically ! We are woman! No one is saying you have to be 115 lbs but if you are 200 pounds you can still look good 4 ur hubby !!! I know I will !! HAHAHAH

well lets hope you find a husband ... :)... my god im such a quiet person.... pregnancy sure has a way of making ppl speak up

I will find a husband... & I will try my hardest to keep him happy in everyway... If he cheats in me then it wasnt meant to be...

thats good im happy for you.. but the guy your pregnant with your not gonna be with him are you??? ... ps.. how old r you??

ABSOLUTELY I will be with him. I love him and always will. I am 26 and have a 5 year old at home. I was married for a 3 years until my husband pa__sed. Not really sure y my age matters here. All I am trying to say is I love the father of my baby and I am willing to wait for him. It wont be much longer anyway!! Bye the way He says hello... he just got here!! He is amused by your intelligence too !!

MOMMYTUMMY-i have you to know that my man has never cheated on me. He has respect for me and believe me i make him very happy and he wouldnt cheat on me with no skank. I am on here because i look at different things on the internet. and you people saying that it doesnt hurt anyone and that the kids are fine you are are crazy. i am proof that a BOOTYCALL breaks up families and the kids are the ones who pay. It was however my mother who screwed around on my dad not the other way around.KSOSA- I want you to know one thing just because we are on here speaking our minds you want to say that we sit on our fat a__ses and let ourselves go you can kiss my a__s because i am not fat and i dont let myself go as alot of these other married women do not let themselves go. if you are in a 2 yr relatioship and it isnt a bottycall then why is he still with his wife?You are gonna look good for what hubby Ksosa? Isnt he still with his wife? Also it doesnt matter if you dont let yourself go your man will still cheat on you just like he is doing with his wife.

your username really explains it all HUNNi!!!!!

ksosa thats so sad..you hsve to pretend hes there awwww... im sure if he was there he would be amused by my intelligence... unfortunately for him you dont have any..... anywayz gl with life and if you find some kind of soap opera happiness in your situation then yay for you :).. im done here...

Ksosa- Its nice to see someone on here that actually understands.. These people act like they know the whole story.. maybe if they were spending more time with there husbands instead of on here worried about everyone else.. You people act like you know for SURE that your husbands not cheating....You don't know sh*t... I still don't understand why you people that have no understanding of this situation why you are on here bad mouthing us women..... I'm sure when you start dating at man you don't say " hi nice to meet you by the way are you married well can I see your divorce papers so I know for sure that your not married any more" give me a dam break you women that make these excuses for these men are just as bad as us...I'm sure 99% of us know what we did was wrong but you cant help who you fall in love with.. obviously the marriage wasn't that great in the first place if they are going else where.. I'm not saying just the s_x either.. communication between them or anything there must be something going on in the marriage for him to go else where.. that's not my problem that what's going on at home isn't what he wants... and some of these men are still with there wives only because of there children.. I know for sure that my man is still there for his kids he calls me every nite in front of his wife.. talks to me til he's ready to go to bed they sleep in different rooms and they both know that they are only there for there kids... you people need to stop hating on just find something better to do with your time... go to the mall go shopping go to the beach or do something with your time instead of being so caught up in everyone else's life... Ksosa- seems like we are living the same life..... Good luck with everything

Jazy...wow..are stories are very much so similiar. I know what you mean about some of these woman here. They dont understand that this is NOT a perfect world and things do happen. What do they think we go out looking for married men? or that we cant get a single one?Let me say one thing..I've been with huys my age, guys older & I absolutely wasnt out looking for a married one. Trust me if I didnt love this guy I would have been gone a long time ago. We can not control alot of things in life. When you love someone you love them. Whether it be a friend, family or a man. I believe that God put this man in my life for a reason, and this baby in my life for a reason too! I feel bad everyday for what has happened but I follow my heart and im inlove with him. He treat me like no one has ever treated me and we spend alot of time discussing our situation. This is a difficult one but in the long run it will all be worth it! Jazy... do you have IM ? anyway to all the woman in here that want to JUDGE me go right ahead....but remember one thing...everything happens for a reason!!!

Hey Ksosa- don't hide behind G-d to justify what you did. G-d puts people in all different difficult situations, in the hope that they will overcome them and as a result, become better, deeper, wiser people. He did NOT put us in hard situations so that we could hide behind when we chose the wrong way. If G-d put me infront of an open bank vault, can i steal the money and say "well, G-d put me there, he must of meant for me to take it"? NO NO NO!. and he put you infront of a married man and made you fall in love with him, so that you could overcome it, and as a result you would have been a better person, happier with yourself and satisfied that you were put in a hard place, and managed not to suc_me to the evil inclination. There is a section in the bible that says how we know if a person has really done repentance. the example of a man who commited adultry is used, and we know that he did repentance if he finds himself in the exact same situation, alone with another woman, and doesn't do it. G-d does not put you in hard situations so you can hide behind him. Just admit that he gave you a challenge, and you failed miserably.

Hi all .My girlfriend was looking at this thread the other day and she asked me if it's true that a man who has an affair is not to blame because he probably was having some form of marital strife and otherwise would never cheat on his wife.As a man i should explain a few things about a man's nature. You are all of the premise that he must have had a reason to cheat. That is one hundred percent true. The reason however is not his wife or anything to do with the marriage. The reason is that the woman he had an affair with was attractive and offered herself to him. When it comes to s_x men have an incredibly hard time saying no.It is very much part of our "animal" like nature. The human quality of man is what allows us to overcome that urge. We have the abilt_ty to realize when not to listen to our desires. In short the wife probably isn't to blame. The man just gave in to his desires,lost control etc. the woman who a__sisted the man in pursuing his desire is the one who is most to blame. Granted certain situations are harder than others but nonetheless, she is destroying a family. The man was tempted and all she had to do was say "no you're married". So you'll say she has desires too! but women in general have more control over their s_xual desires. The blame is to be placed on both parties in the affair. More on the woman but still largely on the man. I can fully understand a woman wanting help after she made a mistake but to complain and gripe about not having the right to destroy a family is just plain selfish. Yes it hurts if someone loves you and you can't have him but that doesn't justify trodding all over other people who rightfully have him.

actually jazy when i was dating i asked the guys 2 questions. the 1st one was are you married? the 2nd was do you have a job. if they answered yes to question 1 or no to question 2 thats all i needed to know and i was gone.also i dont have to make excuses for my husband because he knows how to keep his pants up. and you say that my screen name says it all..well for your information my husband owns his own log truck and this is the name his uncle gave him along time ago when he first started driving. the screen name has absolutely nothing to do with me as you can now see. i use his nickname for alot of stuff. and the nickname was given to him because they were driving in snow and ice and they couldnt see 2 feet in front of them and his uncle got on the cb and said come on slowpoke. so it has absolutely nothing to do with me. that was the stupidest remark i have read all day. and jenny and jim that was exactly what i was trying to say and these women just keep saying that if he hadnt cheated with me it would have been with someone else and he really loves me hes just staying for the kids. well keep believing that honey cause 20 years from now he will still be staying for the kids.

Ksosa- I understand 100%... Everything happens for a reason.. IF it wasn't meant for me to have this beautiful daughter then I would of had a miscarriage but guess what I didn't I have a BEAUTIFUL 3 month old lil girl and a beautiful 5 year old and they are my life... Ya I have IM its jewlskye1024@aol.com... Write me sometime and we can chat... anyways...Everyone on here has made mistakes maybe some bigger then others but we are only human we are ent_tled to make mistakes... you CAN NOT help who you fall in love with.... Jim- this has nothing to do with a mans animal like nature it has to do with the man is obviously not happy at home if he's looking else where.. a man wouldn't look else where if he was so happy at home sorry... I was with someone for 7 years and almost got married and once I found this "married man" I left him I gave up EVERYTHING why because I love him and I know one day we will be together.... and for you to say that the women are more to blame well maybe if the men didn't approach us we wouldn't of a__sisted him as you say... Slowpoke- and how old are you to ask a guy 1 are you married and 2 do you have a job... maybe the job I can understand but if you don't see a ring on that finger and your out I'm sure asking him if he's married isn't the first conversation you are going to have come one now be honest...