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hi im not looking to adopt but i have a really close cousin that cant have children, her husband and her have been trying for about 6 years. they have spent lots of money trying so far nothing, they would be really great parents. she is 30 and he is 34 if u want to know more about them, PLEASE email me at kate_we22@yahoo.com hope to hear back from u, and good luck in your search

Let the father, who wants them, raise them.

As far as i know...you can not legally adopt your twins out without the father also terminating his parental rights ....so if you are ready to terminate yours , he may have LEGAL right to those babies . As he should ,unless he is unfit and would harm them. I agree with "shot in the dark" . You should give them to their father . It's unfortunate . I feel bad for the unwanted children but i am glad that you are not aborting them .I commend your honesty in saying you are unable to give them proper care after birth but please take care of yourself during your pregnancy , they need you now . Good Luck . God will make a way . Pray .

does he want to raise the babies with u or on hes own?

He wants me to be involved and raise the babies. And I have no problem with him raising them. I just can not afford the financial and emotional obligation.... hence the idea of adoption. I guess I'm wondering what my legal rights are since I don't want anymore children. I have an appointment with an attorney soon.

is there anyway that hes no the dad, because if hes not the dad, u can do what u want to do. like place for adoption, as u wish

get ur tubes tied after there born

yes my husband and i are wanting to adopt... i would love to talk to you... we have been looking into adoption and their are loopholes to the father not wanting the babies.. please e-mail meand we can talk more wannabe_mommy1100@yahoo.com

They're the dad's. If I could change it, I would. And tying my tubes!?!?! What a great idea!!! I never thought of that. That was plan to begin with. I may need my tubes tied, but you need your mouth wired shut.

i just hope that everything will work out for the best for u. i bet its hard, but i think u can get throw it. good luck

Email me bctraveler2000@yahoo.com I am looking to adopt and there are ways around the father. I will tell you more when you email. here is my website if you want to take a look. http://www.geocities.com/bctraveler2000/cherylbaquera.html

Ways around the father??? If you are planning to go around the father who wants the kids just so you can satisfy your selfish needs - you don't need to be taking anyones kids. How heartless can you be???

To ???- The whole point of adoption is to give these babies the best life possible. Their dad is not the best option. He has serious anxiety problems. So much so that he was housebound for a year. Yeah, I'm heartless, I just want to do the right thing for the babies.... Not for someone's macho ego. Dumbie

And to all the people trying to get me to give them the babie..... IF I give them up for adoption, my brother and his wife would adopt them.

why are you on here saying that you want to give the babies up for adoption and then get mad and say that you already know where your babies are going when people say that they are willing to adopt them??? all that people on here are looking for is to help you... granted they do want the babies, but you shouldnt get mad at them for saying it... i mean there are alot of good people on here that cant have children and when you say that you want to give your children up, they jump at the idea!!!!

i really hope for the best for ur babies, i bet that this is a really hard time for u, dont let peole put u down, ur life ur choose, and if u think that the dad isnt the best choose for the babies then hes probably not, also, that cool that u would be able the keep the babies in the family, best withs and ill keep my fingers crossed for what u want. xoxo