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i really hope for the best for ur babies, i bet that this is a really hard time for u, dont let peole put u down, ur life ur choose, and if u think that the dad isnt the best choose for the babies then hes probably not, also, that cool that u would be able the keep the babies in the family, best withs and ill keep my fingers crossed for what u want. xoxo

If the father wants them and Child Protective services can find no reason for him not to have the children then the best theing is for them to go to the father. As far your feeling he is not the best person for them, it is something you should have thought before having s_x. For the most part I agree with allof the others except for the loop holes to steal this child. It's hard to feel sympathy for people wo would stoop to baby stealing.

My daughter is 18 months old and im also pregnant with a little boy.My husband and i were hoping for twins but one is just as good as two.We will probably wait a few years before we get ready to try for twins again but if i dont have two that time were gonna call it quits.3 children are enough for me.I hope your twins find a great home if you decide to adopt and the best of luck to you.

First off, my post about the selfish person was NOT to reluctant, it was to the one pushing for adoption who said they can get around the father. I believe it was bctravler? That was who I was calling selfish and ignoring the fathers rights. As for you, "reluctant" you are pretty defensive on here. Granted you came on here and no one is really giving you that great of advice. But lighten up a little. In the book, what to expect when you're expecting it has a secion on having twins and many womens reluctance in wanting them. You are not alone - try reading that along with some other related topics on the net and leave the bad advice here where it belongs...

All I want is to give the children the best life possible. They need a father and a mother in a happy home. Not a broken home. And about the comment on "thinking about that before I slept with him"..... I imagine you've NEVER made a mistake. I'd hate to hear you talking to a rape victim.

Sure I have made mistakes, picking someone I thought was a loser to be my babies' father isn't one of them. You probably thought this guy would make a c___ppy dad before you slept with him. Overall you may be right to give your children to someone else. From what I have seen here,poor judgement is the only consistant thing about you.

how is bctraveler selfish??? there are ways around the father and that is what reluctant wanted to know. all she did was ansewer the question. yes she is looking to adopt so she just said so how is that being selfish???!!!!!

I dont see the people who want to adopt posting on anywhere but these single parent forums..wonder why? They are like vultures to me desperate women who just want a baby at any cost and look anywhere to find them. There are LOTS of children who need a good home. They may be older, different races, special needs etc but they need homes also and Im sure if loving a child is what you want then you willfind that a great suggestion but when women are pregnant the last thing that you need to do is push them into something they do now want. As for reluctant. Let the father have them. he wants them so whats the problem. What are you going on about? he wants them so let him raise them. Sign off rights and dont pay child support. Whats so hard?

To sorry.... I never said the father is a loser.... you must be thinking of your significant other. He is far from a loser. I just feel the best thing for these babies is a two-parent home.

so have you actually found a family for your babies yet?????

If he is not a loser then why shouldn't he get custody? That two parent household c___p isn't cutting it. Especially since you already have 6 year old. Why not adopt him or her out too, since you don't believe a single parent can manage. Give the guy a chance, just because you have low expectations of his parenting skills doesn't mean he can't do it.

To the person who is upset because Cheryl/bctraveler has once again let her true colors show, the phrase "ways around it" inherently imply that some type of trickery is going on. Some how this man is going to be swindled out of his parenting rights. That's why I found it repulsive.

Bingo... Me too

Once again (sigh) to Sorry.... I just feel that the babies deserve a home with a mother AND a father, financial stability etc. I do believe it would be a little tramatic to give my 6 year old up for adoption. I was married to her father and never expected divorce. Nice thought though. To all the adoption vultures.... My family and I have met with my attorney and I will be keeping the babies. Sorry.

You must have been blessed with children and dont know whats its like not to able to have them

I think the problem people have with all these people on this site wanting to adopt babies is that this is not an adoption site. People come here for advice and do not want to feel like they are being attacked by a used car salesman.