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I think the problem people have with all these people on this site wanting to adopt babies is that this is not an adoption site. People come here for advice and do not want to feel like they are being attacked by a used car salesman.

I believe giving the babies up for adoption would be tramatic too esp for the father who wanted them. Still not following on the babies need a mother and a father when your 6 yr old doesn't have that either. I hope your keeping them turns out for the best.

Yes I have been blessed with three of them and one on the way but thats beyond the point. Some people arent destined to have children and live full lives inspite of that. There are soooo many kids in need all over the world...why not try to help one that relly needs a mothers love then preying on pregnant women who are hormonally emotional and rarely know what they want from one day to the next. Its hypocritial to sit on these sites and troll for unborn children. I know women who never thought they would ever have a child and then they did. Let it go.

To sorry.... you're missing my point. If I had known my marriage wouldn't have worked and my 6 year old would not have an in tact family, I would not have had a child. But I think it would be a little unfair to put her up for adoption at 6 years old. It's common sense.

I have to agree with Aisha. I get so sick of these people on here looking to adopt a baby. Some people aren't meant to have children. There are all sorts of kids that need a good home that are already born. Go adopt a child that REALLY needs a home and quit preying on pregnant women.

You are missing my point, which is simply: It is possible to raise happy, well adjusted kids ON YOUR OWN. The fact that you are able to do it (maybe, I really don't know) for your 6 yr old should be proof enough.

Reluctant, ignore the people who just want to be jerks. There are a lot of people out there who want to help. Email me if you need someone to talk to. I too am 29, and I don't know if I can be of any help, but I'll try my best. kim_ralph@hotmail.com

Kim are you looking to adopt too? She already make her decision.

wow, twins something i wanted all my life and have dreamed of. my husband is in the navy and i am at home wife, we have no kids and i am unable have kids adn we would love to take them and care for them. we could and would even keep the dad up to date with pictures and so forth. contact me linda 619-397-6845 or mcintearjl04@hotmail.com

Dear Wow, No, I'm not looking to adopt. Just looking to be a friend to someone in need. We had thought about it, but we aren't going to now. Just wanting to show some compa__sion. You should try it sometime.

Why don't you try reading the part where she says she is keeping her children?

i feel for you, as i myself dont believe in abortion. And you must feel awfully trapped as you are obviously not happy with handing them over to the father for whatever reasons you have. I have one baby and i'm 21, i was very ill which lead me to having babies so young.i would kill to be in your postion but i understand its not for everyone. I don't know what you feel but if you let the pregnacy continnue, you may harder than you think to give them up, whether your ready or not, i found pregnancy very emotional and unfortunatly even a abortion or giving them up is going to affect you. giving them up to another family to love them i think is very admirable and such a tough brave thing for a person to do. i wish you all the best in what ever descision you come too and if you need a friend to chat to ever you can email me on marilyn290384@hotmail.com

tell the dad that if he wants to keep the babies so bad then he has to decide how to come up with the money to support them soon

honey, i think your choice for adoption is the very best for your situation, its not really whats right for the father its whats right for those babies. could you live the rest of your life knowing that you kept those kids from living a very possible better happier life? I couldnt

He won't sign over his rights. So I'm stuck. I have to go on bed rest now and I don't know how I'm going to pay my bills. He said "Maybe your parents can help". WHY CAN'T HIS PARENTS HELP?!?!?!? If I can't adopt them out, I'll raise them. I'm way more stable than him. AND I'M NOT GIVING THEM TO ANYONE ONLINE, SO QUIT HITTING ME UP FOR MY BABIES.

i know this is an awful situation for you to be in, but i think its unfair for you to be so unkind to people that would desperatly wish to be in your position. yeah your stuck but maybe you should of been more responsable in the first place and stop rubbing it in peoples faces. i think your selfish for the way you talk to the people on this forum.