Really Hurt And Scared

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mabeitsmaybalean - December 19

I am now almost 8 months pregnant with my x boyfriends baby he left me the day that I told him we had gone for months without talking and one day he called me and was asking me ?'s about it and told me he has a new g.f and didnt think it was her right to know that was the last I had heard from him for a few months until he decided to randomly start calling me again and finally decided to tell his g/f we had been talking and things had been going fine aside from the fact that I really just wanted to punch him for all the things he had left me to deal with myself since then my dumb self had s_x with him while he has a g/f and I believed he would acctually tell her when he told me he didn't and wasn't planning on it I sent her a message telling her what had happened because I felt so guilty about it now he refuses to talk to me and lets his g/f harrass me he has said to me that he is going to get my baby taken away from me so I can never see her and his g/f has said she wants to be like my daughters mom...I really don't want him there and I have been told he really can't do anything to me but is that true? and if he does get some rights can I get it to where his g/f can't be anywhere near her? I am really stressed out over it and I don't know what to do help someone?

 

kay101 - December 19

More than likely, if you go to court you will get joint custody with you having sole physical custody. Basically it means you have full custody and he has visitation rights. They just call it joint now a days to stick a pacifier in the fathers mouth lol unfortunately there isn't much you can do about the girlfriend unless she poses a physical threat to the child. Fortunately the baby will be with you the majority of the time though.

 

slowpoke01 - December 19

you could ask for supervised visitation. my friend did this when her little girl was only about a month old and the judge said that he couldnt take the child off by hisself until she was 3 years old and was talking good. tell them that you are worried about how you child will be taken care of in his custody and that he hasnt been around for any of your pregnancy. my friends ex cannot take the child anywhere without the mother present and has to meet at her house or somewhere public to see her. he has never even tried to see her. i think that your ex will probably be the same way if he hasnt bothered throughout the pregnancy. take care

 

lier - December 22

slowpoke what state was your friend in...my ex is threating me with joint custody and I am afriad that he can't take care of a baby...he can't even take care of himself...I had to make sure he ate everyday...anyways if he does go after me...I want to know if I can get that for my baby...I live in CA

 

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