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It really sucks to go through this alone, you are now facing one of the scariest times of your life and doing it on your own. If you haven't heard from him since you told him chances are he is not interested in becoming a dad now. Things will never be the way they were so for your own sanity lose the illusion. When you find out you are pregnant as a woman you expect that the dad will be filled with the joy and excitement that you have and maybe he'll come around. Chance are he won't and you will continue to be alone. Take my story for example I am now 20 weeks pregnant by someone I have known and been friends with for almost 9 years and he has turned out to be like someone I just met and was having a fling with. It sucks but as long as you remain strong you will be fine. If you really want to reach out to him do it via e-mail or a letter. Just make sure it is not harsh or mean you will never be able to take it back and he will always be able to reflect back to it and hold it in your face. Good Luck!

just tell him what you told us and if he don't believe that it is his than ask him if you two can work somthing out to where when the baby is born you can get a perternaty test done and if it is his then see if he'll willingly be apart of you and your baby

if you really want your child to be known by his/her father you might tell your roommates best friend because eventhough you just known each other not that well still for the things that happen he might have the right to know what happen to you to let him know his obligation.all things might come out well if you both know how to face it!! if he didn't like to take the responsibility it is his lost not yours because you are bless with a wonderful child that will love you till d' end! so don't be scared of telling him! it is not only your fault it is for the both of you!! be strong for the sake of your child.you know what? your baby needs you!!

To Cee.Did Chantelle not know that babies come from fooling around?Its stupid what u r saying.I totally agree that no matter what kind of relationship u r in u should always be responsible for YOUR own actions!U cant hope and pray that other would for u.I dont blame the guy at all.Its us who gets pregnant and we should think about the consequences before any men do.By the way, Im 18wks pregnant and single and believe u me, although I have a fiance, who is actually insisting on getting married before the baby is born: I rely only on myself.Men come and go-we stay with or without babies and THAT IS THE REALITY.