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Hey-me and my babys father split up about 5-6 weeks ago(i am 27 weeks + 3 days pregnant)-we split up because he had been cheating on me with god knows how many different women while i was pregnant..im only 16 years old(babys due the day before my 17th b'day).Have you got any family or friends that will be around to help and support you??First of all i think you should just keep trying to get in touch with him and just find out what exactly he is playing at,if he carrys on not returning your calls and so on then just forget about him,hes obviously not worth worrying over.You will be fine on your own with the baby-it is going to be hard(it is for everyone)but everythink will be fine!!(sorry i know im not much help)

That is a horrible thing to go through especially preg. I am sorry to hear that and no matter what anyone tells you, you are gonna go with the feeling of your heart. I think that you should try to contact his mom and ask her if she is aware of anything and that if he doesnt want to be with you then you would like to get your things out of his house! Also in the long run he just may be a little afraid of having a child and all the resp. that comes with it! How old is he>

MY EX-HUSBAND LEFY ME AT 7 MOS PREG FOR A 14 YR OLD AND THEN A WEEK AFTER OUR SECOND CHILD WAS BORN HE WENT TO JAIL FOR MURDER,IT WAS HARD AT FIRST ESPECIALLY BEHIND ALL THE CIRCUMSTANCES BUT TIME HEALS ALL AND AS THEY GET OLDER ITS ALOT EASIER

Michelle GOD bless you!!!!!!!!!

your better off hunny, trust me....screw the child support, you can do it, I can..I was your age with 2 kids, he left when I was 1 month oregnant

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i think that you should find a man who is going to take care of you and the baby just dont wate around for him just find some one new.

Do you have familywho can help you or friends? Be strong.

Brooke -- Finding another man is not a solution to this problem. I think a woman needs to learn to be strong without a man, especially if he is not the father of the baby. Good luck Blanie:) You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Hey Blaine, I'm kinda going through the same stuff right now. I wasn't engaged, but we were together for about 2 years, i dont know if i have much addvise to give you. But i do know it helps to talk to someone who's going through the same stuff that your going through. I dont know if you have Instant Messeging... i have aim, my screan name is Novelie16, you can talk to me anytime, if you feel like it. I know everything will get better... the hard point is getting from point A to point B. but it will happen

keep your head on your shoulders..and try not to think about the stress in the end...it will all work itself out life always does...babies need happy times in mommy's tummies..and they can sense when were stressed out... be happy and love this baby you are bleesed with..it will love you soo much! there is nothing like the love of a baby and it's mama.. and the sugesstion of callling his mom to help was good... or go over with a strong male friend and nicely demand your stuff..you'll need it for the baby,..remember babies can sense when we are stressed! good luck...

MICHELLE YOU EXPECT US TO BELIEVE THAT YOUR HUSBAND LEFT YOU FOR A 14 YEAR OLD AND THEN HE GOT SENT DOWN FOR MURDER HOW OLD ARE YOU?

Wow! This situation sounds EXACTLY like mine! Except my sperm donor packed his things and moved out of town when I didnt agree to an abortion or adoption, I was 4 months pregnant (april) and he left me in the house that we had rented and still had a lease until july. I had to move back home with my parents which was a big culture shock because I am used to doing what i want when i want, ya know? During this time he never called.... never came down to see me, nothing. It killed me inside because I loved him with all my heart and I thought he loved me too, he was a great guy I looked forward to waking up next to him every morning and even after we had been together for such a long time, it still gave me b___terflies in my stomach when I touched him, or when he would come home after work. He told me that he didnt want to see me pregnant because it was discusting and I was fat (i was 115 before i got pregnant) I gained 28 pounds during the pregnancy. Yeah I cried just about everyday because I didnt understand....because it went from him telling me how much he loved me to this I didnt know what I did wrong but then I thought of this beautiful baby I was carrying and I got past all of that alone. I went to every DR appt by myself and had to sit in the lobby and see all the other expecting parents there together, happy about thier new life they were bringing into the world together, I was mad and upset that I didnt get to go through this beautiful experience with someone who loves me but I then realized that I need not dwell on this because he is the one missing out on his son's life and when he decides that he wants to be apart of it, it will be too late. So just remember that there are girls out here just like you, I had my baby September 12..... without him and I will continue to do it without him! My baby is now 8 weeks old and his daddy still hasnt made an attempt to see him. So keep your head up girl! I'll pray for you, good luck!! <3 PS let him keep your stuff, he'll have to look at it everyday and think of you, it'll remind him of what a jacka__s he is ;-)

I have a nine year old and trust me you can do it you are older than I was when I had her. And yes I was with him for 3yrs. Men are hard to understand, but my advice to you is don't worry about it right now, only because of your baby's health try to keep family and friends (positive ones) around to sort of keep your mind off of it, because you don't want a premature baby due to stress. And us women have a nature sense to take care of our babies. What I mean is it may seem hard, but once your baby gets here, it'll just come naturally.

He's just scared of the big responsibility. Trust me he'll come around and get with the big picture. Just let him know that you don't have time to go threw the changes of life with people and you'll raise you baby with or without him. He'll have more respect for you if he see he can go on without you because a lot of times when you get pregnant by me they think you can move on because you're pregnant. Prove him wrong and show him you're not paying him any attention. Watch, he'll come around..

Hi Blanie, I too was in your situation when I a few years younger than you...i was scared and did not think i could do it without him i had no family but as Saz said dont doubt your capabilities as a women and a mother...there are many places you can turn to for help there groups for single parents...as for the guy he does not deserve you let him go I know first hand it hurts but it gets better your baby needs you