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I have been reading the comments on this forum for the past couple of months and haven't had the guts to post anything myself. Well, tonight my fiance and I got in a stupid fight that escalated way out of control. Now he says he doesn't want to get married and the wedding is in 3 days. I love him more than anything - I have for years. He is a really good guy, but I guess he is tired of all my moods. I haven't really been myself I guess, being pregnant (unplanned) with twins and planning this wedding the past couple of months. I'm scared to death to think about raising these boys on my own, but I guess I need to prepare myself for that possibility. I'm hoping he's just having pre-wedding jitters, but I'm afraid I've run him off for good. I never meant for this to happen and now I don't know where to turn. Why am I so crazy, running off the only man I ever truly loved? My heart is breaking, I don't know what to do.
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I am sorry you going through this---planning a wedding and being pregnant with twins! I can only imagine the stress. Have you told your fiance how you are feeling now? That you love him and to be patient with you? Honestly, that he could walk out on you 3 days before the wedding while you are pregnant does say good things about the relationship. Keep your head up, try to talk this out with him, but be prepared for the worst. I wish you all the best!
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We ended up getting married, but things have been a little stressful, to say the least. I know not to expect a fairy tale ending, but I didn't think things would be this hard. To those of you who replied, I appreciate your care and concern. When I originally posted, I was very upset and stressed out. I am going to continue praying for us and our marriage and our two sons on the way. Good luck to all of you as you continue your pregnancies!
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Congrats on the wedding. I hope things get better for you and your new family.
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See things work out. Just communicate and don't be too hard on him if things don't go right for either of you. Stay calm, express your love and it will be easy to stick together.
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Ohmyitstwins, how have things been going the past few weeks with your new marriage? Have things gotten better? I hope so. Twins, how exciting. Good luck to you. :-)
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