This One Tops It All PROBABLY
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me and my guy friend after two years of friendship and 1 year of trying to be with me start to go out...were together for a couple months...gets deployed...I wait for him...he says while he's gone he is moving and does not want to be with me...then when he comes back sleeps with me...leaves again and I go to visit him...tells me to get an abortion...I told him I'm pregnant...then wants the baby and his family to have the baby and still wants to be my friend but doesnt want to be with me...I cut him off but would never deny him rights to the baby...I was faithful to him while he was able to sleep with me and still talk about how other girls were hot...I know this is wrong and unChristian but I need to vent...
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What does Christianity have to do with our situation? And what is your vent exactly?
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i think she might be venting because the father of her unborn child is jerking her around...
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ok i can help you with this alittle my sister was preg and her boyfriend kicked her out of the house, his whole family told her to get an abortion. she was jumping back and forth of getting it and then thinking that she shouldnt. i had to help and talk to her through the whole pregnancy , she had to think about how hard it would be when me and my other sister had her baby. we were all preg at the same time and she ended up having the baby. then in the hospital while in labor she would freek out and cry and i as a good sister called the father and told him straight out you are the daddy to this baby dont u think you should be here and he just denied the baby. then after the baby was born he wanted a test which he got and go figure it was his any how it is tough being preg and hooking up ith a soldier that is double hard. my husband is in the army and we just had out first baby back in april. depending on how long you can put up with someone doing this to you, i would let him be in the babies life but have him sign off all rights so he cant take the baby.
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oh the father turned around and realized that he needs to stop his childish games and b there for his little girl. hope that he does the same for you.
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lunamoo...not OUR situation my situation...I shouldnt be slandering the father of my child on a website but it just hurts alot and thought alot might be going through the same thing and the fact that I had premarital s_x...I love my baby growing inside me but I wish me and the father would be together but he doesnt love me...
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