To The Adoption Haters

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to Aisha from have to agree - September 15

Stop wasting your keystrokes. These people obviously can't read or are too lazy. They WANT to see us as "adoption haters" it plays into their "oh boo hoo I 'm a victim" image. No matter how many times we say we aren't against adoption, but disgusted by those who seem to be trolling the board for children. They just can't seem to get it.

 

to Aisha and others - September 19

"Look to the left. There is NOTHING about adoption on this site." There is also nothing about abortion on this site, but I have noticed it doesn't stop people from posting about it. Perhaps you all should go to the abortion threads if you want to be nasty and accusatory. You would fit right in on those threads, where there is a constant battle between the rights and wrongs, plus a whole lot of namecalling to boot, just to give you all something to nut off about. I have yet to see many of the single girls asking for advice flip out over these so-called "adoption trollers", and if they don't care that much, why should you?

 

oh, and another thing - September 19

yes, it does say a lot that women looking to adopt come here. It says that they want to give a child a home, any way they can.

 

randi - September 19

it seems as if most of you women dont even care about those who cant have children. im 16 weeks pregnant and i dont know how it feels not to be able to have children but i know how it feels to want children. I cant imagine how those women feel when they see a baby at the store or out in public. im sure its painful. I do know its hard for people to just pull out $10,000. To be honest i dont have $10,000 in to name but it doesnt caust me that at one time to by grocerys, pay bills, pay on my house, provide for children. We go week by week and dont go without. we even do extra things. what she said about God is true and not out of spite or anything wrong. It means be grateful for what you have because God gave that gift to you, he can take it away. no where in her statement did it wish on any of you anything bad but is asking you to understand and not down her or others for not being able to have the same. Yes God may have not gave her the chance to have children maybe his plan is greater than we know. Maybe shes meant to take in a child a mother cant raise. Maybe theirs a reason she found this site. Every day you hear about babys being thrown in dumpsters, being beat, raped, killed. Those are the women who shouldnt be mothers. I pray that one day she finds her child because i know theirs a baby for her. God bless all of you.

 

randi - September 19

also for the women who said this is the only site these women post, open your eyes. I have saw some on first trimester, second trimester, teen pregnancy, and general pregnancy

 

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