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well i think.. your almost 20 but not yet...your still young and your ex is in jail for selling crack !! You are also still living at home which means that in your parents house they have a right to do whatever they want..even if it means invading your privacy. Yes it sucks but in their eyes your still their baby and they know you better than you think they do. You will realize this when your baby is older and that is probably why they keep those letters from you because they know he is a loser and they are trying to protect you from him. So he says he wants to be a part of his life. Fine..great !!! They all SAY that but actions speak louder than words, And they say anything when they're locked up !!!! You should move on with your life and raise that baby. When he gets out of jail if he wants to see his son than let him. You dont need in your life all the time, your son will know who his father is. Let this guy show you he is a man of his word.

If you don't have trust in your ex-b/f, then there is no basis for a relationship. Trust is one of the most basic and vital ingredients in a relationship. Sometimes when you are in a situation, it is hard to be objective because your emotions are so involved, but if you look on as an outsider, things are very clear. Read back what you have written here, and think, if it was someone else writing this stuff, and I was coming here to give advice, what would you say to them? Or if you had a daughter or friend in your situation, no doubt you would be warning them to not get back with this guy. So do the same favour for yourself, and let him see his son if it is safe for him to do so, but don't become involved with him romantically.