What To Do -pg111687859118
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i am 4monthes preg, the father of the child is back in a relationship w/ his baby's mom, and says thing are changed and i have no say , there daughter is now 7mth. i don't think she knows i am preg, but she is aware that we had a relaitonship when they were not together, any ways he will not call me anymore ever since i have told him i am preg, i am just feeling really scared and unwanted for both my child and myself. should i try not to contact him at all, should i be discussing child support payment w/ him now. i mean he knows of my finacial situations, i live w/ my sister now and it just makes me so angry that he does not even care, how i am feeling or even ask if i am okay finacially. i don't know if i should just cut him loose of ties to me that what it seems he wants, it just so funny how we can be off an on for three yrs and now he acts like there is nothing.
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Speaking from experience.... do yourself a favor and just let him go. Don't try to contact him. Let him contact you. You just concentrate on you and your baby. I was in the same situation a few months ago... I was 4 months pregnant... my boyfriend broke up with me.. and started seeing another girl and now he's engaged to her (although she does not have his child) after he broke up with me he avoided me completely. I tried and tried and tried to talk to get him to be involved with the pregnancy, but he would rather ignore it. have to tell you though... I felt sooooo much better once I finally gave up and quit trying. If he's not trying why should I? He's the one missing everything. It's his loss not mine. Yeah it still makes me mad that he acts like I'm not even carrying his baby. But as time goes on, I feel better every day. And don't worry about child support. Let domestic relations handle that. After your baby is born you can contact them and THEY will do everything to get the support from him. For now, just take care of yourself and your baby, and try not to worry about him. He's definately not worth your time.
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