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8 monthes preg, the father of the baby has since stopped seeing me when he new i was serious about keeping, also he has another child not yet a year old, claims he is working things out and it is inconvient to contact me, he has not given me any finacial or mental support, he calls once in a while and lvs msgs saying whats up like iam one of his boys, should i include his name on the babys birth certificate or even put down that he is the father he orginally told me to have an abortion, iam just so angry and think he is a selfish ass, iam not sure if i should keep contact for my childs sake, but then again i believe the other women does not know i am preg. is there questions i should be asking him? or should i just earse him totally by not aknowledge him as he does to me. what hurts the most is he knows that some of my family have turned there back on me, for keeping the baby, i am all on my own working extra hours to get by i hsve even lost weight during my pregnancy, doctors says i will be fine, but i will be monitered. anyways i am just really confused in how someone can be so heartless and not care about the well being of someone caring their child?
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Just keep doing what your doing. I feel bad for the women pregnant for the men that have a women already. But on the bright side you could be me who has a babys father who has no woman but is adamant that hes going to be single for life and feels comittment is a crime YET thinks hes going to hit it because Im his only babys mother..yea rite!
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Just pray that he gets involved. I'm going through a similar situation and just do not understand how these guys can be so heartless and careless like you said. At least yours leaves you messages... mine wont call me at all. Just try to be strong for your baby.
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