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I am 9monthes preg, when i first told the father of the child he told me to have an abortion. sometimes calling, and not, currently has a 10month old, i sure they r together, spent somtime w/ me and left has not called since , i have called his phone not leaving msg 's and have yet not heard anything. my family and friends keep asking if he is going to help out w/ things, should i just drop this and not bother trying to contact him, because he really is not making an effort to be involved. basically if he does call.... should i just tell him where to go, because iam just stressed out and want to just move on. i have gone through somuch stress and drama and emotionally i am tired of crying. he makes me and my soon to be baby unwanted.
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I wish i could help dear, iam in the same scenario, i started by being good to him hoping he would change and take responsibility but does not seem to come by, every time i try calling all he asks me is when i am terminating it. I am tired of the negativity, i last talked to him last night and he had not changed his position, insists he does not want a child, he has a 3 year old daughter with ex galfriend. i have vowed not to waste my time again contacting him, but later when the child is born i intend to let his parents know, coz the child will need to know his dad's family, just incase. I am also in that confusion.
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i guesse u can't force people to do things, if they don't want to be involved that is there loss, i have decided to just be strong w/ my family and friends , I am not going to call him, and if does decide to contact me I will only be discussing finacial issues that sholud be shared. I wish u all the luck w/ u and ur baby. don't worry or bother ur self over some1 who is selfish.
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