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im prenant and the father wants nothing to do with me but my mum wants me 2 get rid but im so confussed i just dont know what to do and i mean in a way i wanna keep it but i need advise
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Not much support from the other parties involved here, and even you sound less than enthusiastic. You seem quite young. If you have no strong convictions about termination, that may be the way to go. Having a baby to raise now will change your life dramatically. A baby later in life would have a better chance of success. It's your decision. Good luck!
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It is your decision and think about all the posobilities... I personally chose not to abort beacouse I felt a link to my twins even befor I knew I was pregnant so for me it was out of the question... Even though many people wanted me to get an abortion I felt it was wrong so I followed my instintsand kept them... But the moral of the story is to choose what you think is right for you... You can figure out everything later...
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No one can make you get rid of the baby, that's solely your choice.
If you choose to get an abortion, then do so. Just be sure it's your choice and not your mothers or the fathers.
If you choose to keep the baby, understand that becoming a parent is a big responsibility. But know that there's also help. I don't know where you live so I can't recommend much, but I'd do some internet searching to find what there is, both locally and nationally, that will help you and go from there.
I chose to keep my child, but that's just me.
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Im in the SAME situation. When I told the father he looked at me and pulled the 'Sorry, but it's not mine.' [which it is] and he left me.
You have to look at the pros and cons of keeping the baby. You ALWAYS have adoption. [heck im adopted] Make your own decision, dont let anyone make it for you. If you choose to keep it, also know that there are prolly a lot of recorses that you can go to within your community.
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If you want to keep the baby then keep it. If the father doesn't want to be in the baby's life then tell him he can leave just make sure he pays child support and help you out. Don't abort the baby. If you think you won't be able to take care of it or handle the dramatic change in your life then give the baby up for adoption. Do some research on your options then make your choice.
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