Seriously Thinking

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Advice Girl - October 31

not sure but i'm truly considering maybe trying to get pregnant and if it don't happen then i'm going to wait. the past 5 generations in my family didn't get pregnant on the first try so i might get lucky and get pregnant or it might not happen

 

Mikesgirl - December 11

You know that you want to wait till you get out of school. Its not everything to be pregnant and in school at the same time. I'm going to school and i'm pregnant for crying out loud. You don't want the extra stress on yourself.I know that i cant talk to loud for getting pregnant in high school but your still deciding and i'm saying that it would be a good idea if you wait till you get out of school and everything to get pregnant,because its hard going to school when your pregnant. You have to make sure that your ready and that your boyfriend is ready for a baby. Its a big resposibility and you know that. I don't want you to just jump into something that your not sure if you want it or not. Ya i know i go to school with you and everything but you know that its not easy going to school here and being pregnant at the same time. I just don't want you to make the same mistake that I made. I'm not trying to be mean i'm just telling you what i feel in my heart and thats i would like you to wait till you get your schooling done. You know that if you do get pregnant that i will be there for you but some people wont be there for you and thats what i'm afraid of.You know how hard it is for me to go to school and deal with this stuff. I dont want you to just rush into something that your not sure about and mostly if your not sure if your boyfriend is serious about having a baby at this point in time. I love you lots girl!!

 

Advice Girl - December 11

for crying out loud excuse me your the one that said you wanted to transfer the baby to me so that i can carry the baby for nine months. so ha ha ha in your face Charlie. Girl if you could only see my home life you would die of stress. you know what i really really really really really really really really really really really really really really really don't get you anymore. about a month ago when i asked you your opinion you said do what you want it's your decision now your telling me to wait. WILL YOU MAKE UP YOUR DAMN MIND???????????????????????????????? ya 8 lbs responsibility lolz!! Girl you know that i've wanted a baby since i was like 15 and that's never going to change. and Billy is totally ready for a baby, granted i know that he's a lil loopy, ok i take that back really really REALLY loopy but still he's ready and he's going to be even more ready if and when we do have baby. Hell ya women we rock this joint!! i know that you will be here for me if and when i have a baby. i know it's going to be hard and if i do get pregnant during school i will finish no doubt about it sweets ok. i'll be the first in my family to graduate from high school without dropping out or getting my GED. Trust me i made it my goal to finish school and if that mean carrying a baby on my hip then so be it. i'm not trying to be mean either but i truely think i was meant to be a mommy. and i intend to make that come true.. loves you more KKR

 

Mikesgirl - December 11

Well you know how it is for me and i just don't want you to have the same problems that i'm having with all me schooling and trying to deal with the fact that i'm expecting and you know that. I never can make up my mind. I know that you truely were meant to be a mom but you know that it can wait till you get out of school.I just want you to wait because you know that its hard going through school for me and trying to deal with the changes in my sleeping and everything else that i'm trying to cope with and you know that its hard for me. I knwo that your home life is hard and thats why i would like you to wait because you dont want to be under to much stress when your pregnant its not easy.i hope you understand what it is that im saying to you.

 

Advice Girl - December 11

ya i know sweetie i still love you and all your advice that you have given me. honestly who can make up their mind lolz. ya but your leaving after this year *tear* what are you doing for your senior year then?? you going to finish or be done till after baby is born. honestly the i would finish before baby is born. i know that it's hard for you i can see that from a day to day basis.

 

Mikesgirl - December 11

Hey i know that true. I will be going to stay with the dad of the baby and i will do my schooling up there and he will watch the baby on the days that he doesnt have work. The baby wont be due till June 19 so its in the summer. I know that its sad that i'm leaving after this year but i will come back to visit from a time to time basis and you know that. you know that i have told you MANY times that i will come back to visit.

 

Advice Girl - December 11

ya and you also have told me MANY times that you won't be comeing back for a visit that you didn't know if you could handle comeing back. where is he going to go when mike is working. Daycares are a pain in the b___t and they cost so d__n much too

 

Mikesgirl - December 11

We don't know where the baby will go when he is at work and when i have school we are thinking about that still we arent sure what we are going to do.

 

Advice Girl - December 11

Well i know that it will all work out for you honey and no worries tho i love you and you know that i'm hear for you when ever you need me. granted i don't know how we are going to keep in touch after you leave unless we are on here or we e-mail each other but we will figure something out. who's going to be here to tease me it sure aint gunna be Jamie!! Sorry but he would take everything i say as a sick and demented way and you know it. that's just who he is granted he's funny as hell. anyway so like i'm sitting here in Web Design and i just got done with the true/false multiple choice questions and i'm listening to Marilyn Manson he's such the bomb digity lol i've been watching bring it on again if you haven't noticed lol. so like i don't know what to talk about i just know i really don't want to do my web design but i better go loves you KKR

 

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