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Well I can't say I support this kind of behavior, it's pretty disappointing to read. But still... I'm sorry you are in this predicament and if you need any advice I'd be happy to help you. If Bella turns out to be this other guys baby, you should do the right thing and absolutely let him see her. He has every right to, and every right to have his name on her birth certificate as well. Forgive me but didn't you say you and Jon were engaged? Don't you think that's kinda a move in the wrong direction? If you thought at the time you were broken up that it was fine to share relations with another person, what makes you think making a lifelong commitment some months later is the best thing to do? And moving in together? I would imagine the air is thick with stress, awkwardness and discomfort. Think of what Dominik must be feeling. I hope you aren't taking anything I say into offense. I'm just trying to help you see what's best for you and your family. Good luck hun.

It's pretty upsetting to read this, for a lot of different reasons. One being I never pegged you to do that kinda thing, so it is kinda disheartening. But also because of the trauma and stress it's going to put on not just Bella, but you and Jon and your little family. The best thing to do is just do what is best for her, and that's to see her biological father no matter if he is a piece of garbage. If Jon says otherwise ask him how he would feel if he never got to see Dom. I'm sorry it's so rough, but you gotta do what you gotta do. And I am sorry but I have to agree with Amanda. Do you really think it's the right situation to just jump into, with being engaged and that? Because it's really rough, having been separated then trying to jump into everything(not saying you are, just trying to give you some personal advice.) I wish you guys the best, I really do, and I hope things ease up.

Amanda and Tess, thank you both for your replies, im not happy about what I did and i understand your concern, Jon and I decided to move forward becuz people make mistakes and he has forgiven me and moved on. You might actually be surprised on how stress free our relationship really is, he is not saying that this guy cant see Bella but he's just not happy about the having to share his daughter, if you know what i mean We are engaged but arent planning a wedding just yet, we wanna wait and see what happens and where we go, its me who is more stressed out cuz im very angry at myself for letting something like this happn becuz im not that type of person and i know that i will have to live with the choice i made for the rest of my life, I know things will work out they just might be a lil rough for awhile

Just lookin' out for you and hope you guys are doing what is best, and I hope you are. If you say you are then no reason to not believe it.

okay, i'm really fing confused. You two i know broke up at about 3 weeks pregnant..are you back together and are engaged? Have you thought about getting a paternity test.

Huh? You had s_x when you were already pregnant or you had s_x before you guys were broken up?? I'm confuseddd. And wait as I re-read it says you had s_x with this guy and then found out you were pregnant just a few days later? Uhhhmm....

dont feel bad. i'm confused too. i didn't know they were back together, says on her myspace that they weren't together anymore. and i didnt knowthat her and jon had ever broken up. on another page of hers it says that they broke up at 3 weeks pregnant but i dont know if they are back together. so i'm just a little confused. ashley i really hope it works out for you. you should get a paternity test and probably shouldn't be engaged or planning a wedding. just have some time back together for a while and just relax. your still both young, get married later if you still get everything worked out. i mean you just moved as well. s are you back together or not? i'm just so confused.

after i had s_x with the other guy i found out i was pregnant, yes a paternity test will be done no worries. Jon and i didnt break up at 3 weeks pregnant.. We arent planning our wedding but we are staying engaged as we need to move on with our lives, we are dealing with it the best way we can, some of you may not agree with how things are and hey fine by me, lol i wont explain myself, im just saying that i may need some support during the whole testing process ect, im pretty confident that Jon is her dad

so you didn't break up at about 3 weeks pregnant? and i dont think its wrong that you want tomove on and everyone makes mistakes so im not judging you. i'm just trying to get it right because on another site i visit it says that you broke up, and then naother site it said you broke up at 3 weeks pregnant, and on your first post it said you broke up soon after you found out. so i just a__sumed it was 3 weeks cause i read about it somewhere else.

and just to point out where i saw that at..its right here.... just put w.w.w. in front of this >>>>meetmeinto.com/profile.asp?id=498218

oh and that myspace says you broke up...that you weren't together...so...

That website that PB just put up gives a link to the myspace that you claim isn't yours... and that myspace says that you aren't with Jon anymore and you [or someone] repeated a bunch of times "They have the same father." If that's a fake isn't it kind of weird that they would make two accounts on two different websites trying to be you? So....Not to be rude but every outcome in my head leads to you lying somewhere.

i dunno. we are all confused. there is this chat site that tess and i chat on. i saw her in there once and so did tess of course, and i said hey aren't you so and so from preg info, and shes like..yeah who are you. of coursei go under a different name there nd i said. hey i'm pb from preg info. and shes like OHHH. so we started talking and then said she made a new msn which is like mommaoftwo at hotmail dot com or something. anyway i started talking to her on msn for a while cause i was sick of the chat and she said she made the myspace. also said she didn't use the old msn addy anyway. so i got rid of it. tess said that shes been using the old one that i got rid of. ummm perfect innocent angel 69 i think. anywayy, after a while of her not being online on the momma of two msn addy it had been like, two weeks or something. she didnt' remember me. i todl her i was pb from preg info again, and after about 5 minutes she remembered....anyway then after a while i asked her a question about angel and her myspace. dont remember what it was..and she told me taht she didn't know who angel was. at the time they were still fighting tonnss. so i said, you know angel from preg info..the one you fight with....or are fighting with and shes like i dont remember. so i showed her the myspace to jog her memory. and she still said. oh well i havent been on preg info in a while. and i was like. you were on yesterday.....and showed her the post.

i'm not trying to call out anything but i'm so confsued and i dont know if there is a fake you running about...or if its you who is lyin.

Holy c___p my mind is about to explode with the hacking / not hacking account thingy. Why on earth would someone hack into someone else's account and pretend to be them and cause all this sh*t. Seems like a bloody waste of time to me...... Anyway to ashley 1991 - I def agree with the other girls, get the paternity test like you are going to and go from there - hopefully for your and your families sake the bub is Jons and you can put this all behind you. Good luck.

Well all this c___p is starting to creep into my dreams, so now I'm p__sed. Anyway, all I have to say is that she's young and I wish someone would finish a thought. PB what did she say when you showed her the post?? Ashley did you or did you only find out you were pregnant days after having s_x with this guy. Why don't you lay out the dates of your last period, when you had s_x with your bf and when you had s_x with this guy and how long after you found out you were pregnant. That could help. Also, on another note, wasn't ashley the one who was having a fight with some girl on here a few months ago who knew her personally and was going off on her like no other because Ashley beat up one of her girlfriends. So I'm saying that to say that Ashley has some enemies, she's young so most likely her enemies are a bunch of young dumba__ses, and I wouldn't be surprised if one of them has nothing better to do than play stupid games like this. Okay Nancy Drews, lets get to work solving this mystery!