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No matter how old you are, it's HARD!

its bound to be hard at times no matter your age but not difficult!!!

lol angelmonkey I have no idea what you're saying... Even if you take an optimistic view on it...it's still hard. You can say "it's worth it" or "it's rewarding" but it's still extremely hard no matter how you look at it. There's no way someone could say "this isn't hard" because IT IS hahaha.

lol amanda of course its hard where did i say it wasnt? but its only difficult if you say it is! if you view it as being difficult! to me something being hard and something being difficult are completly different to me. its hard not difficult it will be difficult if you make it but obviously it very hard at times

if you cant understand what im saying amanda then read esperanza,s post to me, thats exactly how i feel, i still dont know how you got the bit where isaid apparenly not hard lol

I did read her post. "Hard" and "difficult" are synonyms...look it up in the thesaurus or dictionary.

Angel will have her baby soon to sit here and say "GOD SAVE ME" within a week ;) lol we all do it. Just remember angel, you are allowed to cry too lol.

Hello I am super excited to have my baby! We are due in April! I find out Monday my exact due date! I am a little concerned about what is coming up but I couldnt be more excited! I just hope he is just as excited :) lol

Wow, im confused. Like Amanda said hard and difficult are synonyms. Synonym= different words that have the same meaning. At least thats what we learned in my english cla__s. Being a parent is hard. Being a parent is difficult. Those two sentences mean the exact same thing.

lol amanda dont get so shirty.............you all have your own opioininos and this is mine no need to argue about it lol, i just think its only difficult if make it. people are different some people find things hard that others dont. i,d find it less hard than what i would bringing a child up on my own lol and yeh addy hey when i have my child i may come on here saying jeesh it is difficult but thats because i will "think" its difficult, just im saying it really depends what way you look at it its just mu opinion dont bite my head of

I don't know what shirty means but I was just stating a fact... "hard" and "difficult" mean the exact same thing. I don't know what they are in our own little world but in the real world they are synonyms... fact.

Oh and if for some silly reason you think it'll be easier to handle it because you planned this pregnancy think, think again. I tried for 3 years it still kills me at times.

hahaha jeesh, my opinion deal with it, its funny that none of you can go long with out causing some kind of conflict, look at you all trying to change my views! there my beliefs. no matter how hard it is i,ll never say oh its so difficult! thats my chioce! AMANDA19 wtf! where did i say because my pregnancy was planned ir makes it eaiser to bring my child up! haha

Bringing up a child im sure has its challenges! I have an 8 year old cousin who doesnt really have a mom, I brought it onto myself to raise her to become the person she is becoming! I have a baby on the way also! She is becoming a very smart child. Yes of course she says "I hate you!" and "youre mean!" but she still loves me 5 minutes later when her punishment is up! I am looking forward to having this baby and raising my cousin to become the best they can be! I am young yes, but its a change that is going to change me and im going to let! nobody said it was going to be easy, they just said it would be worth it!!!

lol. First of all Ayla, that has nothing to do with anything at all...And having your own child is about 50 trilion times more difficult than taking care of someone else's child. Angel said it was easy right here: "amnada i.ve heard people say its easy if you dont make it difficult, i kinda understand that, it will be difficult if you let be, its hard to explain why but i,ll find out soon enough lol!" Then she started saying that hard and difficult had two different meanings...which they don't... So I pointed it out to her, and she said I was being shirty, whatever that means. Angel it might be your opinion but it still makes no sense at all. Amanda is right, every parent goes through the rip-your-hair-out scream-at-top-of-your-lungs stage. It's HARD, and it's DIFFICULT (synonyms btw, mean exactly the same thing, it seems like you're breezing over that fact) and there's nothing you can do about it. You can't tell yourself "this is easy!" cuz there's no way you're gonna believe yourself. You can't not let it be difficult because the fact is, IT'S DIFFICULT. For everyone. Okay, I tried to explain that as slowly and simply as I can, you get it now?

We'll see what happens when you have the baby. I'm not saying it's not worth it because obviously I think it is since I'm ttc my 2nd. But it's hard and your bound to say so. You didnt say anything about thinking it was easier, I said IF you think it'll be easier think again. Some who plan their child think they will be super mom because it wasnt an oops and they think they are better equiped for the hard stuff when it's not true. That's my opinion and YOU can deal with it. You'll be eating those words, watch.