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Well Harold & I have always had problems with condoms... I don't know what it is, we either never buy the right size or he just has a weird p___s lol. The regular ones are too small and he can't even put them on without them breaking, then the bigger ones are like falling off of him. Maybe I'm missing where the sizes are in between teeny tiny and enormous hahaha. I was planning on trying out condoms again and using both... I'd really prefer to take a pill though, maybe I should just stop having s_x until I'm done b___st feeding. It might be sooner than I think, she makes my nipples bleed so I have to talk to my doctor about that too.

Hm... How do you put a condom on improperly? Don't you just roll them on? I'm kind of uncomfortable with the idea of female condoms haha. That just seems weird to me. With my hectic schedule I really don't think I'd be able to take a pill at the same exact time every day. I'm going crazy just remembering to take my prenatals haha. I guess I'll just talk to my doctor about the different options I have.

I dont really know what an implanon is. The mirena iud is highly effective. It makes it virtually impossible to get pregnant. It does have really bad side effects for alot of women though. It isen't recommened for teens.

THIS IS WHAT TH EIMPLANT DOES.........Implant What it is A small flexible rod containing the hormone progestogen. It is inserted under the skin, usually on the upper part of the arm, and will last for up to three years. How it works The hormone progestogen stops ovulation (release of an egg) and thickens the mucus around the cervix, which makes it difficult for sperm to get into the womb. Advantages Does not interrupt s_x. Works for up to three years. Fertility returns immediately implant is removed. Disadvantages Does not protect against s_xually transmitted infections (STIs). Periods may be irregular or stop altogether. Can cause headaches and skin problems. How effective is it? The implant is 99% effective. This means that 1 in 100 women who use implants will get pregnant each year. What makes it less effective? Some prescribed and complementary medicines. Can anyone use this method? The implant is not suitable for all women. A doctor or nurse will need to know about a woman's medical history and any illnesses suffered by immediate members of her family, to find out if there are any medical reasons why it might not be suitable. although i dont know how this affects b___stfeeding? if she is making your nipples bleed have you considered b___st pumping or something? could help, and i also have know idea about condoms lol i dont put them on so how would i know lol. i know that the little tip at the end you are suposed to squeez as your rolling it on everwise the air will amke it split or something

They insert it under your skin? That sounds painful haha

IUDs are supposed to be effective, with or without hormones. Scarleteen.com has good hints on correct condom use. Harold must be using old condoms if they split while being put on. One reason condoms come off is that the user does not leave enough slack at the end to accommodate the c_m. Of course, once the guy is done and starts to lose his erection, it is time to withdraw. Until you figure out a better method, how about using a combination of good condoms, v____al spermicide (foam or film), and avoidance of the fertile window (a__suming b___stfeeding does not prevent ovulation). Good luck!

haha it does sound painfull but you have general anastetic injected to the area ( they place the rod like abouve your elbow but below your armpit like right in the middle) so it is completly numb i didnt feel a thing then they inject in and you where a bandage for a few days and when they take it out they do the same exept make a small cut and pull it out

Lol well my fella used to be useless at putting them on, instead of rolling it he used to try to 'drag' it on... I used to say what the hell are you doing, read the bloody instructions. No I definitely couldnt take a pill at the exact same time either. Bad enough with the usual 12 hour ones!

The condoms aren't old, we go out and buy them new. They are a generic brand though. I didn't know about squeezing the tip though maybe he doesn't do that? I don't like watch him put them on really haha. I just a__sumed he knew what he was doing. It's not the tip that breaks though it's the band at the end that holds it on. That's why I thought they just didn't fit. Are there birth control pills that you can take once a week or something? I can really wait until I stop b___st feeding to have s_x, it's not a priority... Although I'm pretty sure Harold will be mad since the entire time I was pregnant my s_x drive was at zero. So that's nine months plus at least another four months. He'll be turning blue :P

haha amanda i know how you feel i had a very high s_x drive im now im nearly 7weeks and its just zero lol! i just havnt felyt like it since i found out really

angel have them put you on pelvic rest. it'll come back right that second lol. once i was taken off of it, my drive went back down. drives me crazy!

what the hell is pelivic rest lol?

nothing in the v____a.

oh beleive me i,ve had nothing there for well over a week now lol and still i dont want him to touch me lol! i mean i used to moan that we hadnt done it in months if we hadnt done it for 3days lol, im just not interested lol! i think it started that i was scared that the baby would fall out lol but now i just really dont want it! its strange even when he does all the thing i love it just make me want it less! lol i dont know whats wrong with me! i told him get use to it because ths is what its going to be like the whole nine months and then about 6months aftere i give birth lol

who knows. a lot of women get their s_x drive back in the second trimester. or third. it's different for everyone. let's see, i've got about 8 weeks until i'm in the third trimester. it seems to be coming up so fast!

really wow! third tri!! tehn you,l be having the baby lol! wow! its going really fast for me aswell i will be 7weeks on monday! or tuesday hmm not sure lol