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Oh honey, I think we've all been in puppy love before, and it blinds you to reality. I honestly believe that girls now adays are going in way over there heads in early relationships. Back in the day, at 13 14 and 15 a girl was happy to have a guy kiss her. Then she felt like they were going to grow old together and have a family. Nowadays s_x is a norm and they ARE REALLY WAY OVER THEIR HEADS!!!! I mean at 13 14 and 15 I thought the impossible was possible. You still think there's a possibility fairies exist, or that your parents didn't have s_x until after they were married though you are in their wedding photo! LOL. It's not until you get older that reality really hits. Sometimes it takes even longer-I know people who are hitting their 30's and only just realizing that guys will say they love you and you are the one and only said it to get into their pants. So imagine them at 13 14 and 15. If they had met a semi-nice guy who promised them the world they'd use the whole romeo and juliet excuse for their ages. They'd believe they were going to be together forever, so why not try for a baby. Thing is, and I think many of us know that if Romeo and Juliet hadn't died so soon after meeting, Juliet would have gotten tired of his crazy a__s friends, annoyed with his parents, he would have been on some other girls balcony spouting out those same lines to get laid, and she would have been at home with the brood wondering if he was lying when he said he was leaving to go to battle. I mean come on. Youth is wonderful because you still see the world through magical fairytale goggles!!! Put s_x and a biological clock in the mix and you have young girls having s_x believing that they are going to be with their guy forever, once that feeling comes along and is combined with hormones then a woman's body says "tick tock, time for a baby" and then you have a little girl TRYING to get pregnant. Also you have those who foolishly believe that a baby ties you to a guy forever and in their insecurity about their guy leaving then they want to seal the deal. The think their guy is different than all the ones they see leaving their girlfriends after they get pregnant. It's sad cuz we all know it's true that a baby ties you to a guy forever, but it doesn't mean he's going to be tied to you forever. If he leaves and has nothing to do with you then you have that great little person to constantly remind you of the heartbreak-and of course some women aren't mature enough to make sure the baby doesn't pay for that. So yeah it is unfair to those poor babies-sorry I started venting too.

The week before I met Harold I was telling my mom how I would NEVER have s_x until I was married, and I just couldn't fathom why anyone would. Then I met him and I was like "Well see ya later cherry, it was nice knowing you" hahaha

haha when I was a teen I always said I wont have s_x til I know I will be with that person forever!! I saw all my friends get pregnant at 13,14,15, years old and didnt want to have to go through that struggle.....then I got with my husband and a week later.......$(&!#(&)!#&($!!!!!! Eventhough I felt like he was the one and I was ready....I just suddenly realized I would never know if I would be with someone forever, and it seemed so right with him....So far my feeling has been 100% right but not everyone is that fortunate and are blinded by what is in front of them.

I use to think how scared i would be on my wedding day because after the party i would have to have s_x for the first time, and that was a really scarry thought to me. Ha ha, things do change.

Ah love. It does crazy things hehe.