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geez,my husband is h__y pretty much all the time,but being 32 weeks pregnant I'm not really in the mood at all,and when I am I would rather take care of it myself.We do it once a week or so,but it is hard for me to get in the mood,and even harder to get comfortable enough to want to do it.I know it is the pregnancy,because when I'm not pregnant,we do it probably 2 or 3 times a week.Right now though I have a toddler and a big belly and I just don't want to.

Yeah I haven't been having s_x at all. I feel used if I'm not into it haha... It sounds kinda silly but I really feel like, wrong afterwards. Plus s_x is still pretty painful for me. Without regular s_x since my episiotomy I'm really tight, so every time it stretches and is soooooo uncomfortable. Hmm I wonder if the discomfort is adding to my lack of desire?

Well when we first had s_x when I was I think 3 or 4 months postpartum. So my episiotomy was pretty fresh but we still did it, and I was able to enjoy it. Now it doesn't even get to the point where he's going to put it in lol Also I wasn't a "wait, no, slow down" kind of virgin. With my fairly strong pain tolerance my first time was not gentle at all. It was actually pretty rough hahaha.

LMFAO!!~ man we should re name this thread TMI dont enter if you dant want to hear about our privates!!! Okay gucci, lol Iam a very open person, probably because i always talk to guys, so I am not ashamed of talking about any of this stuff in fact i love it lmfao! funny story. I never had a real vibrator before, i just had little toys and the bullet...ect...well i went to a s_x toy party, and decided why not, and spent 80 buck on this really cool vibrator...well I discovered later when i was testing it out that it is a bit too big for me...Eventhough honestly I have had s_x with a guy that had a p___s that was so big that if i told you guy how big it was you wouldnt believe me. I realised i cant get somthing like that inside me and enjoy it unless i am actually having s_x...well anyways...I have found that All I use this 80 dollar vibrator for is c___t stimulation, and the a___l ease i bought gets used for my son and his teething....dont worry we never used it and if you look it up it is a great and safe thing to use for teething babies, then the lube i bought was a little runny and got spilled on our carpet our first night we used it. Thats okay it smelled funny anyways, then everything else i bought i use as body lotion cause it smells good and doesnt irritate my sensitive skin...lmfao! I had all my "gear" in a brown bag in a dresser that was in the room that is now my brothers room. Well about 3 days after he moved in we remembered it and told him DONT GO IN THAT DRESSER!! well i know his curious 16 year old boy mind he got curious, cause about a week later he came out of his room with the bag in his hand and said " Here guys i dont want to look in it cause you told me not to, but i want to use the dresser"....lmfao we know he looked in it cause he was acting really strange and was holding the bag several feet from his body. Okay one more story. When jimmy and i first got together we were living with his sister, we were watching his sister's kids and the niebors kids during the day as a favor, well jimmy and i were in the middle of s_x when the niebor came by with her kids, so we had to stop. Jimmy took off the condom and threw it on the floor real fast....**Keep in mind guys we were 15 & 16 years old and didnt know better** anyways we were making breakfeast for the kids, when one off the little girls comes out of our room and says look guys its a balloon!! we looked over and she had the condom that we had USED, but never finished with luckily, b__wn up....I covered my eyes i was so freaked out and jimmy went to dispose of the used but not finished in condom....lmfao.....ahhh the memories!!

oh amanda if you think your epi scaring is causeing you pain and your low s_x drive try putting a___l ease on it...google a___l ease and it will pop up where you can buy it for like 8 bucks

Jeeze I thought I was being wild using the play vibrations. That's the only 'toy' I've ever used... The weird thing was that Harold's sister bought it for me... We went to the store together and she asked me if I needed any condoms... I was uncomfortable enough with that, but I admitted yes I did need some. So we went to the condom section and I just kinda grabbed one and ran haha. But, there was that play vibrations thing... and she stopped me and said "OMG you have to use this it is AMAZING!" She threw it in the bag and it stayed in my drawer for a long time. I never used it, felt comfortable using it, or felt the need to use it until my s_x drive vanished. It was also my first time masturbating since I was about 12.... I'm desperate to share that closeness with him again :( Anyway we tried having s_x today just to see if maybe I could enjoy it even a little bit... but no. He was certainly enjoying it but I ruined it... In the middle of it I said in a casual speaking voice "So are you done yet?" hahahaha I didn't mean for it to come out like that...poor guy. I just didn't feel anything at all... It was almost like getting checked by a doctor or something, you're just sitting there waiting for it to be over!

gucci LMFAO!! hmm lets see... When Jimmy and I tried to have s_x for the first time, we were at his sisters house, we had just started then had to stop because a family frind had come to the house so his sister and bro in law were knocking on our door...When we walked out I walked to the front door because I was suppose to be looking at this guys new truck. When I opened the door, about 10 people were standing outside staring, my bro in law says "nope they didnt finish because she only has a partial limp." Dh and I were having s_x and It was the first time I ever gave him permission to finish on my face **blushing**...Well he did and as I was trying to clean it off I got it in my eye. I got a really bad infection from it had to go to the dr and explain to alot of drs what exactly happend My ex and I were at work (keep in mind i work construction) we were taking lunch on a stack dry wall with his cousin...his cousin fell asleep so we decided to lay next to each other spooning and have s_x that way. In the middle of it all of a sudden we hear "omg! you arent?!?!? OMFG Im right next to you!!!" We had to buy him lunch for a month to make up for it. dh and I were having s_x on a park bench at about 10 at night, didnt think anyone would be there. then all of a sudden a little kids about 7 came up to us and asked us if we were okay...Jimmy said Yes she just has a migrane...lmfao Before my sister and jimmys brother knew jimmy and I were together, we hid it for a few months, they would walk in the house and say man it smells like s_x in here, they would get into fights about it because they would think one or the other was cheating.....my sister and jimmys brother use to be together in case you didnt know that already. I would tell you a whip cream story but it is exactly like yours...lol I LOVE the idea of a___l s_x but have a really hard time doing it. Dh and I have a agreement that if I am drunk and dont tell him to stop he can do whatever he wants to me...thats usually when the a___l s_x comes in play

Oh and Jimmy has never let down the fact that one time when we were having s_x I casually asked him if he knew if the niebors had satilite tv or not

yea gucci i just cant do the big d____o thing! same with p___ses, i am better off with a nice medium size. I have been lucky enough to have been with under a handful of guys but experience about all the size that people always talk about, and i have to honestly say size only matters to a point and i am very honest when i say that dh has the perfect size and knows how to use it

oh i thought of another story...... My son ate my bc pills................end of story lol I had to call poisen control, he climed on the bathroom counter after he saw me take one and he thought it was candy. I was so worried he would kill all his swimmers or somthing.lol Poisen control said it wasnt a big deal and it may just give him a stomach ache. He had the poopers for a few days, but luckily he didnt grow b___st or start growing pubic hairs

a___l, honestly i dont think it worked like I would have hoped it did but i think it made my cervix a little softer. and deffinatly made s_x more enjoyable. I use to put a capsule up there when i went to bed and, i think i took two by mouth then one was all we needed for s_x, I would just bust it open with a needle. Look it up you will find what they recomend......It didnt make me dilate anymore then I already was but i dilated faster when i was in labor with no cervidil, apose to when I had Dante WITH cervidil...i think that had alot to do with the epo

Okay... I don't want to be mean but that is disgusting... I didn't post this to hear about the grossest details of your s_x lives. I have only continued reading to try and pick out the sentences directed at me... As uncomfortable as it made me, I posted details about my s_x life in order to obtain helpful advice. Your posts are literally making me physically ill. With all do respect, if you want to continue talking about your s_x lives, post up a different thread and I'll stay away from it. For now, I'd like to continue getting what not-disturbing advice I can. Thanks, and I apologize if this came off as b___hy.

OHHHH i thought of something, and its weird i know but have you tried s_x cla__ses? hahaha not to learn how to do it but kinna teach you different things to do and positions. also you can go into a s_x store or a health food store and see if they have a tea or herbs that might help. I know our s_x stores sell like woman viagra you can take shots or they have pills. that might help a little. and im really racking my brain to try and think of things i did but im almost out of ideas. Sorry about stealing your post me and durante can move it somewhere else

Thank you for moving your conversation, I'm glad I didn't offend you. S_x cla__ses? That sounds... weird haha. I could look into a Kama Sutra book, maybe that would help but be less awkward?

ohhhh another thing, my stretch marks drove me nuts in the begining!! trim so that its short hair, but dont shave that will irrtate, and then put vitamin E on the stretch marks, the first year after austin mine were soooo itchy and any kinna rubbing or touched made them kinna swollen and you wouldnt notice

Vagina stretch marks?