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You are psyching yourself out. If you ovulated 6 days ago there's a change your egg wouldn't have even implanted yet. Meaning the only symptom you could possibly be experiencing at this point is implantation bleeding. Every other "symptom" is 100% in your head. It happens ALL the time. Once the thought of pregnancy gets in your head, your body starts to falsely prepare itself. Your mind has total control over what your body does. You could even start to grow a pregnant belly if you overthink things to the extreme. Stop thinking about pregnancy, stop thinking about babies, stop thinking about the possibility. If you ****miss your period**** then you have permission to freak out. If not.... Just forget about it! It's not like it's going to do you any good if you continue thinking about it because a test wouldn't be accurate right now anyway.

haha yeah i just didn't know when i think i just got sick from the food i ate actually i just was wondering when you would get symptoms, i have none except the cramping thing (enlarged ovary) or whatever and some slight cramping actually now

When you got the cramping it was even a little soon for that. Usually the cramping is because of implantation and that doesn't occur until about a week (give or take a couple days depending on the person) after ovulation.

well i heard it only takes at least 4 days it could be early or something or just coincidence who knows... :) but we shall see in about a week from today!! ill keep everyone posted ha if AF comes o jeez... how do you make it having a child so young and everything? you seem like a strong wise woman for your age 18 right?

4 days is like an absolute minimum. It usually isn't that early. About 6 days I think is normal. And yes I'm 18. Technically I'm not making it. I didn't put a roof over my child's head, I didn't pay for the bed she sleeps in. It wasn't until she was like 9 months old I think that I was able to pay for her clothes, food and diapers... She doesn't have insurance. Financially, which is a major part in raising a child, I'm doing a c___ppy job. I'm no role model for teen parents so please don't look at me like one. I do what I can for my daughter, I try the best I can, but if I hadn't had any help she wouldn't be mine. The only credit I can give for the life my daughter has is to my grandma who's been helping me. As for the part that I do.. When I found out I was pregnant I hit the books. I read every parenting book, every pregnancy book, every newborn book, every toddler book, every children's book, every teen's book, I lived and breathed anything parenting related. I asked my doctor wayyy too many questions, I went to people who were parents and asked them their opinions on whatever matters, what they would have done differently in their parenting.. The baby stage is the easy part. You just have to make sure they are clean, happy and don't die. The growing up part though... kids start to get complicated around the time they start discovering their s_xual parts, which studies say averages around 5 years of age, which is also when they begin to masturbate. From 5 to about 20, that's the hard part. It takes so much time and careful consideration. Those are the years that determine whether or not you're a good parent. So I can't even tell you if I'm gonna handle it, I can't tell you if I'll make it or be a good parent because I just don't know yet. You never know until the time comes. People think once you handle the baby stage that's the tough part... No way. Pregnancy, labor, the first couple years, that's a walk in the park.

haha well thanks i know that within the next 2 years i would be fine financially and everything but i got my times wrong it was a week ago from today that i would have ovulated lol

but either way you are doing good for what you have and i don't know if i would have that kind of strength like you have so i congrat you for doing well enough...give me some hope atleast :) with everything you said...but yeah it was a week ago ha so 7 days ago lol i get my weeks all messed up i should start AF next sunday...

I think I do well with what's given to me but compared to other mothers who waited and planned... I just think things should have been like that. Which is why I am so against people who are unprepared trying to have babies thinking it's cool... but that's a different story. You started having the cramps when? I don't know about an enlarged ovary but implantation cramping has been described as being similar to period cramps.

well today a lil and yesterday some pinching pain but last friday i went to the doctor because the whole s_x pain which was what she suggested as an enlarged ovary...cuz she didn't feel any ma__ses or anything...but yeah so that was it really... and im 19 ill be 20 in september and so by the time i have a baby (if im prego)

also really random lol but i had a bloody stool (just once) like the other day and today it was i think dark or blackish maybe? it was a bright red idk if that means anything...also i am not constipated? do you have to be constipated if your pregnant? lol my questions are probably stupid but google is no help when they are detailed ha :)

No you don't have to be constipated to be pregnant... I've never been constipated before. You need to get yourself to a doctor... it sounds like you have an ulcer on your ovary.

btw an ulcer on your ovary explains every symptom you've been having, including the extreme pain during s_x. Sounds like you aren't pregnant.

One more thing... It's pretty serious. You could need to have your ovary removed... which would of course make it hard for you to conceive later.

or would i have to get an ultra sound done to confirm an ulcer? cuz wouldn't that be like a cyst...prolly alot more serious though...

I'm not a doctor... But as far as I know cysts don't cause bloody stools. When you said that you had a bloody stool I immediately thought ulcer, so my brain started sticking and I put two and two together. Bloody stools could mean several different things, an ulcer is a more common one. Painful s_x means there's something going on with your ovaries so I thought why not an ulcer on the ovary? So I did a quick google search, looked at the symptoms and treatments. Your doctor would know a lot better than I would. And yes I would imagine they'd be able to see it in an ultrasound.

haha yeah thanks!! she said last friday she didn't feel any ma__ses, and the stool thing was just one time really it didn't happen today which i also heard that could be a sign of pregnancy? idk i could be COMPLETLY wrong ha but i figured she would feel the ma__s if it was a cyst or ulcer...? idk... but thanks for all the help ill find out thursday!!