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Well I don't want to get in the middle of anything but I think the senseless name calling is pretty pointless. If you are going to insult someone at least have it make sense. llukenjess, you came on here with good intentions to protect someone you felt needed protecting, that's good and I'm sure you're a very caring person. But you're being awfully hypocritical. You are causing more fuss than anyone by insulting people back and forth. And if summersun was really hurt and offended why would she keep returning? She, regardless of whether she is lying or not, is looking for attention. Truthfully, I do understand why you would feel like a lot of these girls need to be protected... But they really don't. They need to be straightened out and they need to be told the truth. Everyone here knows that and that is why they often come off as harsh, they need to be harsh in order to get through to these girls. They need to understand that getting pregnant at such a young age and so unprepared is NOT okay. They need to understand that it's not easy, it's not fun, and they certainly won't get a lot of support. By protecting them you are simply eluding them from the truth, making them unprepared for what lies ahead. You'll notice that any pregnant teen that comes on here and holds their head high and has every confidence in themselves is welcomed and supported. But any teen who comes on here oblivious to the situation, any hint they give that they don't understand what is in store, they will be bombarded for their own good. I don't know if you have kids already or not, but when they do something wrong you don't just say "oh it's okay don't worry" you have to explain to them "No, this is wrong." With teenagers especially you have to be a bit rough with them because the majority of them like to think they have everything under control and they know everything and no one can tell them otherwise. That is why so many mothers have so many problems during their children's teen years.

manda..i TOTALLY agree with you, and you can say those honest things and you can tell the truth without saying things they way they were said. Delivery is so important with teenagers! they dont wana be told ANYTHING! they're never wrong they're always right....you have to make sure you say the things that need to be said in the manner so they can take it in not defy or undermine what you say or not listen to anything....that would be counter productive.

then when people start bashing me for no reason...becuase i'm telling them they're being mean and rude...thats ok?

llukenjess your a hyporcite!! your sayin how we,re immature and use foul language but (cough to clear throat) you my dear are just as bad if not worse with your language! even my language isnt as bad as yours and im 18!! i think your suposed 2 be a little more mature than an 18 year old but your not!

Hm, well then I think it's weird that you decided to protect summersun of all people. She speaks about her parents in the most foul manner... that's what really got me. That showed me that she really doesn't understand what it's like at all to be a parent. If she knew the first thing she would probably praise her parents. She just shows characteristics of a girl who needs to be thrown out into the 'real world' for a while, then when she understands how harsh it is she might be on her way to being prepared. Didn't you say you were friends with her parents?

thats also a lie that they know each other llukenjess gave her e-mail altho they allready know each other and has said other things that proves they dont and also i dont think summersun has caught on that they "know each other" as some of the things she says to her do not make sence if they are "friends" there both liars in my eyes! thats my opinion and know one is going to change it..........

Well I don't know any of my mom's friends' email addresses... haha.

and thats why summersun of all people i'm protecting...no one knows her situation and no ones knows her personally....i've spoken with her offline so it doesnt matter....notice how shes not really saying anything anymore??

it doesnt matter i gave hermy email address my mom still asks me what e-mail address to use...i have a personal email and i have a work email. and i'm not a hypocrite cuz i never said dont use bad language...i simply said there are other ways of speaking to a CHILD! there are many people in this world that when they're teenagers they bash their parents....teenagers think they're parents are out to ruin their fun! i think we're all forgetting about teenage years, and just because some teens dont bash their parents doesnt mean others dont everyone is different!

no one is asking you to change your opinion angel....we're simply asking you too be understanding!

you are a hyprocrite you badmouth us saying your so imature you spend all your time on this site because you have nothing better to do and that are language is foul i mean god read some of your posts!! im 18 and your acting more immature than me!! so what we have different veiws i think she,s lying you think she,s not!! so what! get over yourself!! now im off to work!! have fun sitting on your arse llukenjess you obviously have nothing better to do lol

Again, I am a teenager myself. So I know and remember what it's like to be a teenager, lol. Of course I had little tiffs with my parents and I often thought they were making the wrong choices for me. But never in my life have I spoken about my mom in such a way. Especially now. Ever since I got pregnant I have never spoken ill of my mother. I thank her for every little thing she does and I make sure she knows I do, and always have, appreciated her. Now, because I understand what motherhood has in store, I know every decision she has ever made was for my own good, and everything she said or did that I thought was hurtful or stupid at the time was her way of raising me, and I know it hurt her to punish me just as much as it was hurting me. That is why I think summersun needs to be taught a lesson, because she obviously doesn't get it yet. I may not know her or her "exact" situation, I simply go by what she openly says on here. I really can't imagine what extra little spice in her story she didn't share would make it okay for her to speak about her mother like that.

you're here just as much as i am so u obviously have nothing better to do with YOUR time....and i never claimed to be more mature than you are!

i dont need attention and for your info i dont even no my aunts and im sorry for what i called my mom and she for gave me but my father not my step but real one called me a low life dirty sc_m bag whore!! im 14 i made a mistake like everyone of you guys so why aren't understanding because im going through a hard time. well andrew and i are really good i go see him after school and on the weekends. and we are deciding on baby names for if it is a girl or a boys

Summersun, we do understand you. I first got pregnant when I was 15, so yes I know what you're going through. It is because I have been in your shoes that I have said everything. Try to understand that. I've been there, I am there, I know what's coming up, and I am concerned for you.

thank you. you and llukenjess and my bf my stepdad and my mom and some of my friends understands and i havent told my teachers should i?