32 Weeks And Motherin Law Drivin Me Wild
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me and my fiancee are only 17 but plan to marry next year. his bother literally hates me.I dont know why but she do. anyway who cares about her. me future husband have been so close for about a year and a half now and he know for a fact from his own actions he is the father. I know he's the father. she refuses to believe it and wants us to have a paternity test at the hospital which delays him of signing the birth certificate and claiming his parental rights. just because she wants us to have one does not mean that he have to take one if he dont want to right.I wouldn't have a problem proving the fact the he is the father but we both say what for and we know the truth. does she have a say so in the emergency room or not.
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It may depend on the state, but if you're in the US and under 18, the call is probably hers. If I were his mother, I'd want there to be a paternity test, too, if there was any doubt in my mind about it being his. If you're so sure it's his, then why not let her have it? If you really are going to marry him, then you don't want to rock the boat. You're going to have to deal with her for a very long time, so it's best to be on her good side. In her mind, you've already stolen her son's youth, so it's best to do as little as possible to upset her. You may not care what upsets her and what doesn't now, but in the long run it's in your interest to get along with her.
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Are you referring to his brother, sister or mother!?!?!?! Anyway, just do the paternity test. There is no problem AT ALL to have his name on the birth certificate after this is done. No on loses anything in taking this simple test. What does your mom say?
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I, too, think you should just get the paternity test. Like LIN said, in the U.S. if your boyfriend is also under 18, she might have say in it. Just do it to make her happy otherwise she might always hold resentments against you and never really believe the baby is her son's.
On a sidenote, I'm 17 and 32 weeks as well :] I'm due aug 16. you?
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If it helps, maybe you can see it as a little victory for you when the test comes back saying he is the father. It's kind of a, "See? I told you so!" without ever having to say a word. Trust me, you don't want a bad relationship with your mother-in-law.
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