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ladies, ladies....lets be nice to the man. i mean, u got to give him credit for getting on here......lol.....and asking the question in the first place. i mean, really, think about how funny it is. he gets on a third trimester board and asks a group of hormonal, tired, large and uncomfortable women if his wife is "faking" her aches and pains. i almost feel sorry for you man. anyhow, i just thought we could all see humor in it and give the guy a break. most men really dont understand and never will understand what we are going through. perhaps we can let him know that she is for sure not faking it and that it is not the end of the world. your s_x life will resume once baby is out and mommy is healed. my hubby is very s_xually active with me and always wants it but has been wonderful to me in understanding that i cannot per doctors orders. its a short amount of time in all of our lives and such a small sacrfice to have to make for the gift that we get in return. i wish you luck on your quest to "get some" before baby comes. :) but do keep in mind mommy needs attn in other ways right now.

why don't you try just telling her that you know she is uncomfortable and you want to give her a nice back rub and a foot ma__sage with no strings attached. Don't try anything or she won't let you near her next time. The other thing you could do is rent a movie that you know she wants to see and buy a new cozy blanket for the couch that both of you can get comfy under, get some snacks that she likes and just snuggle through the movie, and run your fingers through her hair.

Ok, I can't help my self! Even though everyone else pretty much covered it.... I have to say this just so I can sleep tonight! I apologize in advance... This woman is carrying your fourth child and taking care of the other three... SUCK IT UP!!!!! You want fair? How about she carries the baby for 4 1/2 months, you carry the baby for 4 1/2 months, she takes the stretch marks, you take the hemroids, she'll take the weight gain, you take the labor and/or C-section, she'll wake up for mid night feedings and you have the bleeding nipples!!! That's not even counting morning sickness, moodiness, swelling etc... Now that seems about fair!!!

I will say it again this post screams FAKE! It is here to start controversy hence why his "thank you" post he is still being an a__s in a way. I can't imagine any man whose wife is having his fourth child is that stupid...come on has he had his head in the ground for the last 3 kids? that's like 3 years of pregnancy that he never noticed what itslike. thank u sims1 for noticing it as well. this post is clearly here just to start a huge debate or fight...

Tish I hate to break it to you but this is not a fake I sent him here because I was tired of fighting with him about me making excuses. That's really my husband and he is so serious. I belong to the ABC (april babies club) thread. I turned 37 weeks monday so yea that's how crazy it is for me at home I wish it was a joke but I'm the wife

so this is the same husband that cheated on you for a year....and has had phone s_x with other women???? I don't even know what to tell you or your husband. so my instinct were right, he's looking for a way to justify having s_x with another woman. i wish you both the best of luck.

Yep that's him, and I asked him the same thing

No offense but I think youre being a bit selfish. All of those things she says.. her back hurting.. shes having braxton hicks, she has heartburn, her hibs hurt, her pelvis hurts..its probably ALL TRUE. You have to remember she has another human being living inside of her.. its hard stuff to carry around a baby, especially when you are close to delivery. Having s_x is said to put you into labour.. so maybe as her due date approaches shell want to have s_x with you.. so that shell have the baby sooner. Otherwise.. I think you should get out lefty and righty and help yourself. ~Kristin~

Your wife may not want to be touched right now. Just sit and think about the times you have hurt yourself or were in pain somehow...I bet a few of those times you didn't want anyone bothering you! Sometimes I feel that way when my back hurts or when I have too much pelvic pressure....those times I want to lay down with no one bugging me. And to answer your question...YES...you are being extremely self centered and selfish! If you want to do something for your wife...go cook supper, do the dishes, the laundry, and take care of the kids so she can get adequate rest!!

Maybe you just aren't hittin it right buddy :D

Wow Mamay Keya, you are a tolerant woman. I woulda probably cut his Johnson off long ago. Sorry to be vulgur but this guy sounds like he's got some real issues. You are a good woman and certainly don't need a selfish jerk like this one. I wish you all the luck.

Now that I've read through all the responses I will stick to my original response and would like to add MAYBE SHE DOESN'T WANT IT BECAUSE SHE CAN'T BE SURE WHERE IT'S BEEN

you are selfish. hope this helps.

wow mama keya I'm so sorry u have that for a man... I've seen teenagers act more mature.

Your poor poor wife and because you cheated on her she doesn't know where that thing has been or what else extra you're bringing home with it. Have fun with your lotion :)

Not very creative if all you can say is 'your mom!' Why don't you grab one of those naked pictures and go jack off in the bathroom at work? Here....take a pack of kleenex with you. People like you are the reason why whoever created purrell is a rich rich man. Is the battery on your phone dying because you last phone s_x session was so long?