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Amanda - How many times has he called before? Have you met and spoken with them everytime? My mom tried to pull that BS with me, she's a hypochondriac, seriously, and wanted to drag my daughter to the dr. every week and nothing was ever wrong with her. I told her not to come over anymore and she started trying to come over when I was at work and ask my husband to see her and bad mouth me to him as much as she could. If they were outside playing she would try to hide behind the carports and spy on them. I cut her out totally and she wanted to take my daughter to a specialist because she learned how to roll her eyes and said she was having seazures....which she already tried to do before and about flipped out when the dr. told her she was wrong. Anyway she tried to call them on me for that and pretty much saying we beat our daughter because she got swatted on the b___t once for running out in the middle of the street almost in front of a car when we never spank her. Of course nothing came out of it, but she went so far to call the governor's office to complain and say they weren't doing their jobs when it got dismissed. Wierdo. They said they have to look into it when somebody calls but after the same person calling 2-3 times and it being c___p they stop. My dad also told me when he found out I had her if I really loved her I'd give her up for adoption because I'd never be able to go to school or accomplish anything. He came around after my only response was go to hell and not talking to him for a year....and during that time I proved him wrong. Woo went on my own little vent there LOL sorry, but I know the c___p you're dealing with and even though you aren't doing anything wrong it causes you unnecissary stress. DAMMIT FEFER! You were supposed to have that baby last night! Haven't you been listening to my coaching?! LOL sorry you got your hopes up and still aren't feeling well. gabby - it's almost over mama! Are you excited to have all that time to youself now? Don't feel bad hoping you get something lol it's like me being p__sed none of my coworkers came to my shower, then whining about how badly they need me back at work whenever I stop in. You've probably become like extended family to them. heather - wow, you'd have a lot of work to do girlie! You've had a pretty easy pregnancy though right? I love my son, he's so easy but I swear, after worrying for 4 months that he could die I don't know if I could handle being pregnant again. All that fear and I had nothing to worry about the whole time! Granted the preterm labor sucked, but I didn't even mind that THAT much, it was just the constant worry. We uh....were naughty this morning :P and when we were done he wanted to go again and was like let me stop before my fertile a__s makes another baby and the next thing I know you're saying baby, I'm late. It only took us a month trying. Christie and dawn you guys have to stop making me so hungry! I want to go out and get icecream now! Besides disko, nobody else on here has more than one little one already right? My daughter is 4 and I thought her as a newborn was so overwhelming.....now that it's the second time with my son I'm like Oh my God, he's SO easy. He only cries when we wakes up to eat and needs to be changed so it's like hey woman I'm hungry come get meeee! My daughter actually needs more attention and I thought she'd be the independent one because she's older, but she's actually more work. I thought she got easier as she got older lol you guys are gonna be surprised because it's totally different than I though it would be.

Yes my mom is on my side about the whole thing and she knows me very well and knows I'd never do any of those things... I guess I could prove everything if it really came down to that. My dad also tells them that my mom was encouraging me to get pregnant for whatever reason... He also thinks I got pregnant just to p__s him off. Like yeahhh I'm going to bring an innocent child into the world just because I like to see you mad. That makes perfect sense... He's so crazy I can't believe anyone listens to him. Like I said I really don't mind talking to social services, they're always really nice people and it doesn't take them long to figure out there's nothing going on except my dad makes up a lot of things.

omg kay i am here worried about the opposite cause with chas it was cake she was such a quiet baby ... i sit here thinkin mannn i hope i dont get the total opposite this time lol plus chas is 11 so i am spoiled i dont have to do much for her really. Kay you watch flavor of love right? I watchd the finale and they show the reunion and he proposed to someone but they say its not who you think.... hmmm any ideas?

Kay, I talked to them once before in person, and then once over the phone. The girl they sent over the first time was new or something... today they sent over the "senior" something or other. Just someone more experienced I guess. Like I said I think they find it hard to believe that everything I say is true. I think they see so many messed up teens that they think it's more likely for me to be some drug addict than just regular me :)

Haha, yeah they are pretty nice. The one who came to our apartment at the time just kinda started chatting with me. One of the questions she asked oddly was about my job, I don't know why but it was just on her little list and she asked if I was happy there. I told her no, because I find it boring and considering I'm getting a criminal justice degree it has nothing to do with the field I'm interested in and I feel like I'm wasting my mind when I know I'm so much more intelligent than what my job requires. She told me a few places she worked at before and for her internship and gave me their numbers to call to see if they needed any help LOL

wow amanda I had no idea you were so young. I thought I was the youngest june mommy lol. guess not. when do you turn 18? Im glad you are handling the situation so well... Im sure nothing will come of him calling them, do you live with your dad?

I was gonna say, you'll probably be different since chas is older. She'll probably be a lot of help though. I watched flavor of love.....I saw the previews of him getting down on one knee and saying will you marry me.....I didn't hear the part where they said it's not who you think. I wonder if it's just a clip of him being like yeah one day I'll get down on one knee with somebody and say will you marry me.....then they edit the preview so all it shows is him on one knee looking like he's proposing. Not to spoil it if anyone else watches, but I actually think him and her make a good couple. They seemed to compliment each other really well on that last date, just like they were similar and really enjoyed each other's company.

on one website it said he might make a mistake and propose to thing1 then some say he proposes to black... who knows lol

Heather- I turn 18 on September 4th, so that's not too far away. I don't live with my dad. I used to, but one day about two years ago he got upset about something, packed up his things, bought a trailer and left. We all lived in my grandma's house, because my mom's house in san diego was burnt down and she never got around to buying another one I guess haha. Shortly before my dad packed up and left he hit me, and then my mom tried to get him away from me so he hit her too. My grandma was happy that he left and said that he wasn't welcome there anymore. So my dad was thinking he was just going to make a dramatic exit and be welcomed back in a week or so... but every time he attempted to come back my grandma would call the police and have him taken off the property.

wow, I was looking at my day planner to see when my next appointment is and I realized that I only have 3 appointments left until my due date! I knew I only had three and a half weeks left but three appointments sounds like nothing... we are sooooo close ladies! Im so excited!

amanda... so he has some sort of police record.. at least a record of the police being called on him? I doubt they will look to far into his stories if he has police history and your mom and grandma stick up for you. you seem like a very mature and responsable person to me *shrug* Im sure you'll be fine. how old is your fiance.. if you dont mind me asking..

OH if he really proposes I bet I know what happens then! Did you watch I love new york? On the reunion show mr. boston had a twin brother and they had him come out on stage first instead of mr. boston and she thought it was him. Maybe they play the same trick on flav.....which would be messed up to make him propose to the wrong girl. LOL remember when he split them up and when he was drawing on the clock got them mixed up? They also aren't supposed to see each other till the reunion so it could be an easy mistake. See amanda.....we all love you lol nobody had any clue how young you were by the way you carry yourself. I seriously think there's only 2 types of teen mother's.....the ones who grow up and take responsibility for their children and the ones that don't and shove them off on their parents. I did as much as I could for mine, yet other girls my age when I had her I saw would just ditch thier kid at home with their parents and just run the roads, party, etc. just like they did before. It made me proud of what I was doing and p__sed at the same time at what they weren't. I was like you, never drank, smoked, did drugs or wanted to, never partied. I was a good kid, smart, the only thing I did 'wrong' was have s_x before I was married. You're gonna do just fine, I promise 18 is a magic number because then you're REALLY able to do things for yourself. I remember right after I turned 18 I was finally able to get my own car, couple months later I got my own place, and a couple weeks later went back to school.

My fiancee just turned 19 on the 5th (yay same birthday as Curtis Jr!) So he's a little less than a year and half older than me. I don't know if being escorted off the property puts anything on his record or not. I doubt his record is perfectly clean though... Since he's an alcoholic and I think every single one of my brothers and sisters have called the police on him for child abuse, except for me. He has hit me before, as I said, but I never called the police... He's never been arrested for child abuse because he never left any bruises I guess. But yeah I'm sure if anyone cared enough to look up all that information they'd get some kind of idea that he's just not a good person.

kay one is chubbier then the other if he proposed to the wrong girl he really is dumb lol but I guess i could see where like if he was on TV how could he stop and say wait ... you got fat hahaahhahaha guess time will tell!! Amanda it sounds like you have your stuff more together then your dad does and the fact that you handle it so well and talk to them makes you look great. Its just sad sometimes that people just cant let you be happy...especially your own parents but there are alot of parents out there who are huge fuk ups ..all you can do is learn from it and be a better parent for it..I think alot of times that is exactly what happens alot of kids have a messed up childhood and would never do that to their own kids.

you know i can honestly say I wasnt a good kid growing up - i mean i wasnt into drugs other then weed but like i said my dad was/is a stoner so he offered me it - and i was horrible in school always cutting cla__s,s_xing my boyfriend(s) - getting into fights,got my first tattoo when i was 18 ...did anything my dad said not to basically but after i had my chastidy SHE changed me she was all i had cause my parents disowned me - the relationship with her dad went down the tubes and all i had was this lil girl who looked to me to protect her ... I raise her to be so strong so she is never disappointed by other people in life I make sure independence and intelligence are two things I instilled in her. I won't say I didn't go out to a club or two after she was born .. i did but I did it on the weekends she was with her dad so I never put anything ahead of her and 11 yrs later she has never seen me need anyone ...never seen a man in my bed .. a man at our table ... she had seen me struggle - and learn and grow and I think that is positive she needs to see the struggle..i think alot of kids should see that so they really understand. Anyway I took a bad situation and made it something to learn from I think society needs to learn to respect young mothers and get rid of the stereotype..as well as single mothers... they say never judge a book by the cover right ... I dont know where all that came from lol all of a sudden i was in the mood to tell my life story haha i just cleaned the whole 1st floor of my house too haha woo hoo !

My daughter deffinately motivated me to get my a__s moving! I watched my mom 'struggle' and now looking back I can't fathom why. She got $1000 for me in child support alone which paid the rent and cable. The electricity got shut off several times for her not paying the bill, as did the phone which was always getting turned off and when I was 17 eventually STAYED off. My dad paid payed for my internet, she had an old beat up honda with no car payment and didn't have insurance. I had medical insurance through my dad too. She also worked TWO full time jobs and was always borrowing/stealing money from me. She didn't do drugs, drink, gamble or anything, she just had no clue how to spend money. It really taught me how to budget mine. I was able to maintain my own household making less than 1500 a month at one time. I don't want my kids to ever stress out about us not having somewhere to live or be able to afford anything. I think that's probably why I always feel guilty when I buy myself things.