STRESS WHAT S THE DEAL

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cher_don - March 22

hi mamma keya, i had a similar experience recently, last year just before i found out i was pregnant i found out my huubby had been playing away and i was devastated, he was back on cocaine after being off it 4 a good 6 months and i thought i couldnt cope. he confessed everything about this girl and the drugs and we worked on it from there, weve been great since then until 2 weeks ago when he started being a "bit odd" i was worried again but hes bipolar and hadnt been taking his tablets so i wrote it off as that, and got him back on them. last weekend he went to blackpool with his brother for a stagg party, he went on friday 4 the night and he rang me at 3 in the morning telling me he wanted a divorce and he only married me out of pity and being really nasty. he wasnt home by tea time on saturday and i was left completely devastated then he rang me, he was crying and saying sorry and telling me i was his whole world and that he would take the tablets and that he was just trying to hurt me because his head was messed up. he came home sunday afternoon and went to bed, when he was sleeping he got atxt on his phone so i read it and it said "hello my s_xy little blackpool friend" !! ive never been more stressed than i have this last week, im 38+5 weeks now and my baby is my main concern like you. i rang the hospital and explained everything (through great big sobbs) and the mw told me that this sort of stress would be very unlikely to harm baby in anyway. i hope this helps you im sorry i went on bout my hubby 4 so long but wanted you to know your not in this boat alone and that im always available to listen if you feel the need. i wish you all the luck in the world with this, keep your chin up girl, i will be thinking bout you. :=)luv cher xxxxxxxxxxx

 

1_4_The_Road - March 23

One word for you *Divorce* and by the way I have no respect for women who go around crying to other women about issues they can change. Instead of coming on a site showing how pathetic you are why don't you put that same energy into looking for a divorce attorney and divorce this piece of junk your married to. For all you women wasting your advice please stop,people like this cry and complain and then go lay down next to the man and keep having his kids.Your all wasting your time.

 

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