I Need SUPPORT And REASSURANCE
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I am 35 and have 5 children. I did not want to be pregnant again. Nor did I really want to be the other 5 times...LOL. But I have 5 beautiful children.
I strongly believe I am pregnant. I have tested negative through Urine and Blood (which has happened before). I have been tested for every other thing like cancer, stds, etc. Which really weren't neccessary for me. But the doctor's like to know everything. I have a Ultrasound scheduled for December 12th and hopefully All will be revealed.
I am extremely sick like with the other pregnancies, my br___t are 4 times bigger and my uterus is stretching and growing at an extreme rapid rate. I also look pregnant. I even began a very light period on Sunday. Which I have done before through pregnancy. It is not regular whatsoever. I was on birth control (Depo Provera) and my last NORMAL Period was in June. Unlike many others I bleed like crazy for weeks at a time on the Depo Provera. Here's the big concern....
There hto be more then 1 baby in there (unless I'm nuts) it's entirely different and too intense to be just one baby. I feel things going on in all areas of my abdomen and the stretching pains are constant. I was told I could have fribroids (spelled right?). But I have to be real with myself. I have never had a female problem in my life. I have only had a fertility problem. And that problem is: Getting pregnant if even Breathed on! Am I nuts or do I really know my body and is there more then one?
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I'd be surprised if you could get pregnant on Depo no matter how fertile you are, but anything could happen! I guess if you were late getting your shot it could cause you to release more than one egg, or it really could be fibriods. Only your ultrasound will tell. When my mom was pregnant with my sister she was sure she was having twins because she was getting so big. Turns out she had 1 baby and 1 fibroid. Good luck at your u/s, I hope you get the news you're hoping for.
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Thanks..But I feel so lost and helpless. Because of the negative test, then feeling what I'm feeling. I have never felt in 11 years the way I've been feeling for the last 2 months. I actually came off the Depo after 1 shot because of the bleeding. I know the story sounds rediculous and very uncommon. But all the pregnancy symtoms are driving me mad. I never had my tubes tied because I was 23 and had already had 5 children, and my doctor wouldn't do it right after my last birth. It was better to have my husband get fixed. I recently remarried and have a unfixed husband. So birth control became a new subject for me. After the Ultrasound if It's not a baby.. I'll get my tubes tied. But I really remember what it felt like being pregnant and all the wierd pregnancies I had. I've never had fribroids so I don't know what they feel like. Or if they give you pregnancy symtoms. With my age, race, and all the twins in my family it makes me wonder even more. And all I can do is continue to grow, feel pregnant, and wait until Dec. 12th. Thanks for responding :-)
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Good luck to you... come back and let us know what happens after your u/s. The 12th will be here before you know it.
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The technician wouldn't tell me anything...LOL She said the Radiologist would call my doctor and the doctor would call me.
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fingers crossed for you!!!! keep us posted!!! :o)
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c'mon girl... the suspense is torturing me!! :o) I hope all is well and that you are not being tortured.
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Ohhh this is where I put my thread. Well to update: Very Very pregnant. Due July 15th. If you ask me I'd say there are 4 in there..LOL Wayyy too big, baby everywhere, movement all over in too many palces, and too much pressure But I'll let you all know on my 23rd visit.
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When I had my ultrasound on Dec 12th. I don't believe they were looking for baby. I was given a Pelvic Ultrasound. It was very brief and lasted about 5 minutes. When I was called a few days later she said that the saw No abnormalities of the tubes or ovaries. She did mention that they saw where I had recently ovulated because I had several large follicles where the eggs are. So I guess that explains the twins or triplets..LOL!
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wow, i see your other posts aswell! that must be such a shock for you!
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yeah, now July 15 has moved from August to now September 15.
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That is the date that was first given to me by planned parenthood. I went there for pregnancy testing before seeing an OB/GYN. It is a written doc_ment. (dated Jan 9th) Blame them! It was recorded by the last menstral. I didn't have a menstrul so they asked when was it suppose to come???" I told them Oct. This is written on my Pregnacy report!!
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