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Tiffany are you asking me? If so, I don't know what you mean. I was stating that Lauren might find more answers on the BabyCenter boards. I was just trying to help and I think you might find a lot of help there too. They are very nice ladies that have been through a ton. I have had a lot of losses myself but I also know the feeling of being alone and no one can understand what you are going through. But when you are trying to conceive and also dealing with a loss, you don't want to put yourself of a board where women are pregnant with or have had multiples. I just don't think it is a healthy place for you to be right now. Not trying to be mean, just that I have been there and done than, ya know?
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to WOW - obviously you have NOT read this board because you would see that I have posted advice and/or comments on other threads. I too am a mother of multiples and have experienced the pregnancy and now raising multiples so I can speak with knowledge about it. Yas on the other hand has a desire for multiples and has no clue as to the reality of it. Looking at numbers, statistics and playing the odds doesn't make one an expert on what it feels like to be pregnant with multiples and/or being worried everyday about maybe going into pre-term labor, etc. Myself, onetwo and yetanother CAN speak to that and urge women to consult their doctors. To Tiffany - I have offered you my condolences, offered you advice - as well as to Yas. I can empathized with your loss (I have suffered MANY losses as well)... so have other women on this board. It is not easy to get over. As far as having time on my hands, hmmmmmm.... again I will point out that I can post when my kids are sleeping, napping. I have it under control, but thanks WOW for worrying :)
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Hi Tiffany! Yes I have a 3 1/2 year old boy. He is my buddy! I am a stay at home mom for right now, because we are kind of in limbo... this isn't the way I planned everything! I love it though. I also do volunteer work 3 days a week with 1-5th graders and they let me take my son with me! (He says he is ready for school!) Anyhow..back to you..are you healing? I know it can take a while. You should do something nice for yourself during this time-like get a ma__sage or something...if you like ma__sages???Take good care.
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my remarks were directed mainly towards Corena, anyway I don't want to fight. I don't have it in me. I have no problem with you triplet or onetwothree. I just want you to back off a little unless someone is asking for your advise. Nobody wants a fight. KWIM? I think Corena is out of line but, whatever, I'm just not gonna pay attention to that anymore. It just generates bad energy and I don't want that. Lauren, I have a 4 year old daughter and she is my buddy too! I call her my shadow. We are together all day and we have a blast. I am a make-up artist so and my husband owns his own company so fortunatly we can be at home a lot of the time. I love ma__sages! I took my oldest daughter to the spa for the first time last week and we havd the BEST Mommie and daughter day! We are leaving tomorrow for Santa Monica for a week and we are staying at a resort and spa there so I will be having a LOT of treatments in the spa! Can't wait! My dh is playing in a poker torunament in LA so, the kids and I will be having fun without him. He also playes poker on a professional level so sometimes we travel with him, its fun but stressfull. lol
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Tiffany, I don't have to have someone specifically ask me for advice to post it. I wasn't doing any name-calling or even out of line. Lauren seemed to be asking questions that were falling more in the area of fertility problems and she was asking YAS about what she experienced. Yas hadn't posted on the board for 2 days, so I was just letting her know the truth and tried to give her a place that could answer her questions. WOW came in here acting like Internet Rambo but without any ammo and Corona was defending tripletmom and myself from what WOW had to "say" and I appreciate that. She was also stating her beliefs to Wow and I respect that. I really am sorry you are having a hard time, but as I said, this just isn't a healthy place right now for you to be. It just reminds me of myself when I was going through grief yet I couldn't stop watching Baby Story and hating the women on there and bawling my head off that I was going through this. I'm not saying you are that bad by any means but you do sound like you need a break and that you are pretty fragile right now.
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Tiffany, if you don't want to fight, then don't respond. Especially, don't threaten someone physically which is what you just did.
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Hey Tiffany! Have a wonderful time in Santa Monica-it is beautiful there-I am so jealous! Have lots of fun and get lots of rest! That is so funny that your husband plays poker. My dh always watches those poker shows on t.v- it drives me crazy! He reads all the gambling books-he is starting to scare me! LOL! We usually go to Vegas once a year just to go, but I'm not a huge gambler and neither is he. Anyhow, have fun and forget about all of this! Your friend, Lauren.
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Well, well, well. More threads have been deleted.
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I'm guessing the thread where Tiffany threatens physical harm has been deleted?
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Wow.. I must have missed the threat. Who deletes them and is whoever posted that now banned???
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It was a comment to Corena and it wasn't very sweet.
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Is it me or hasn't Tiffany been banned a few times already? Could that explain why her name lately isn't in red and isn't registered? I think she needs to find another site because it seems even the moderator is getting frustrated with her comments.
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I noticed that as well..... You'd think she's take the hint.....
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Hello mama-beans. I was wondering where you were but figured you were busy with the pregnancy. Either that or according to the other post I read, seeing a psychiatrist and heavily medicated! LOL!!! Glad to see that all is well and that you are having a BOY! They are so much fun!!!
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LOL!! There are days I'd like to be medicated, that's for sure! Oh how nice... someone else to watch DD for a few hours while I catch some zzzz's.. Seems even when it is time to sleep, I'm not sleeping, but thinking, thinking, thinking!! Can't turn the ol' noggin off! Yes, medication would be much welcomed some times!! LOL!!!
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I'm not sure I should ask...but I was being threatened? That's never good! I'll try not to take it toooo...personally. I know that pregnancy hormones can get a bit over active. Wait a minute, the threat came from Tiffany? I'm sorry that she has lost her child, after many loses I jnow that it's so hard. But to threaten someone?
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