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NO! Do not take this the wrong way! You need to enjoy being a teen. Take advantage of what life has to offer you. Plan your life! Make babies when you are physicall, emotionally, and financially able to care for one.
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YOU DONT WANT A BABY!!!!! Take it from me I had my baby at 16 I had gotten pregnant at 15. Even though Im doing better than most 17y old mothers, I have a job paying 15 me and my fiance just bought our first home, and I have my own car payed with my own money. But its not happy baby all the time, they do cry and cry alot. Sometimes they stop sometimes they dont, you have to change nasty diapers, bathe them, wake up with them, feed them, change them, take them to doctors, and you have to buy them the things they need. You beenig 14 I dont see you having any money. When I was pregnant, my fiance at the time was 20 he had a job paying great money, so we could afford it. We didnt mean to get pregnant, but I love her to death and woulndt change her for the world. But you have to remember, you cant pawn her off on anyone. Its YOURS. So no partying, drinking, spending the night with your friends staying up all night (by choice). You have to give up alot. You wont be a normal teen doing normal teen things. While yor friends might spend there day at a nail/hair solon, you will be at the doctors worrying about a sick baby, and at night when there all at someones party, you will be at home feediong a baby. And when all your friends go to prom, you will be at home cleaning spit up off your sholder. And whie your friends are graduating you'll be in the stands wishing it was you. Yea you might stll go to school when your pregnant. But most schools dont excuse pregnancy checkups, which means you fail. So you really need to think about what you will be giving up. Honey your not old enough to have a baby. Plain and simple.
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I agree with NurseJ....get a puppy....believe me that is very close to a baby!!
I know mine is.....
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oh my god your actually throwing your life away!!!
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