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Nat, honey you are 15. You don't need a baby right now, you need to be a teenager. Look for activities and friends to go do things with. I can remember being 15 and feeling like I needed something of my own to love...it was because I needed love. I had no self esteem and just wanted love so bad. Be patient. Be a teenager first....

nat...i wanna give you the same advice i gave the other 15 year old girl here. i understand your desire. iam 29 now, but i was in your boat at 15, and had an awful family, and wanted a baby really bad to love. welp, i didn't get preggo, and i was lucky, because at 19 when i did have my 1st child, i realized how very hard and expensive it is to have a child, and how important having the right dad for your baby is. unfortunately my son got ill and pa__sed away last year from cancer. now 29, iam holding my 4 week old child right now, and it is extremely hard even with a great hubby and at my old age, lol. i know waiting a few years seems like an eternity at 15, but time moves faster with each pa__sing year trust me. iam not saying a girl your age is uncapable of raising a great child, iam just saying, you will miss out on soo much. much more then you can even see right now. i don't judge you like some others may. i fought for attention my whole life, and for love that i just never got, and it's sooo difficult, but you do make it through! w/b if you wanna chat more, i yoyally understand how you are feeling. i remember the feeling well. hugs:)

Thanks for your posts as suppose i'm searching for something that is lost in my life but a baby seems to be that, i no it would be best to wait until i'm older and i will try.

For you theres no hurry. Your not even old enough to drive. I'm 23 and just now starting to think its time to start trying. so far i've had no luck. A baby takes time which you know, money and patience. right now enjoy yourself. just b/c there cute now does mean they stay that way and when your friends are off doing what ever your stuck home with a baby. your up all nite, your parents or who ever with have to help support the child b/c most jobs won't even let you work till your 16. also a baby isn't just around for a weekened or a month its the rest of your life. i hope you deciede to wait till your at least 17 or 18 then if you still feel that way then do it.

nat you are very welcome. i think you are a bright girl, and heck we ALL want someone to love, and who will love us back. some women had great lives with caring people around, and those are the type of people who can't understand why you want a baby, but i can. and at 29 now (30 in a few days, ughhh, lol), i can tell you now, only cause i can look back, that it will change. you will find someone who will love you, and you will both want a child together, to show your love to one another. a baby right now won't make you feel complete, and if you have one with the wrong guy, like i did at 19 they are in your life forever unfortunately. he was the biggest loser on the planet! i didn't care back then. i had noone love me my whole life until 24 when i met my hubby. it won't take you that long, i fell into a deep depression over my son being ill, and had alot of problems. lets say i didn't get out much at all! you will find that guy, and fall in love, and it does happen! even if you just wait till 18, you'd be surprised how much you will know then vs. what you know now. it's crazy! noone could have ever told me that back then, but a few years does make a huge difference. you'll have kids hun! life doesn't end at 20, it keeps on goin, and goin! i know at 19 i was mature enough to have kids, and that is looking back now at almost 30, so just wait alittle while. it isn't to long to go! hugs:)

i think that would be a mistake wait a bit longer, dont rob yourself of your youth. a baby is a big responsibilty,i know , i have two and at times i feel like am going insane, and i wish i was 15 again young and free,i am 30. i know they can be cute and sweet, but educate your self proper, and later you can have your baby and give her every thing she wants and need.

Your t_tle said it all "15...baby?" Yes, you yourself are still a baby. Please be young and enjoy this time. It doesn't get easier as you go. Enjoy your freedom now.

Nat, its hard to feel the way you do, but you need to make sure you are emotionally ready to be your own person before creating another. I am 20 years old now, and having a baby. I cant tell you how much self discovery and changing i have done in the past five years. give yourself that time, because im telling you that even now im five years older than you and still finding more and more about myself all the time.

I dont think you are ready wait a little bit and see what happens

nat, how r u doing?? ((hugs))

first you have to have a bf to have a baby cuz you cant get a sperm donor at this age

I think that there are too many "Children” that have too much time to play around on the internet. At that age most kids need attention and to come onto these website to gain a negative response to make themselves feel better. There is nothing that many can do to stop these children from having s_x unless you want to lock your kids into the house. I was 17 when I had my daughter and as time went on I realized that my life changed for the better. I'm 28 now, mature, stable both in mind and I know what I want in life. I didn't think that I could get pregnant; I was on the pill and viola it still happened to me. Listen, if you want to go out and have s_x, so be it but you understand that you can catch aids, get pregnant and really mess up you're life for good. I know way to many girls that show up to the hospital with their parents and they are given a pill, they wait approximately an hour and away they go to surgery. This pill is given to you to make you dilate so that your uterus is open so the doctor can suck out the baby. The tool looks like a small vacuum cleaner. I'm serious about this girls !!! They have you lay down, your somewhat laying upright, they put your legs up, they check you to see if your dilated and then the vacuum is started. The machine is so noisy and you can hear them sucking out the baby through a little hose. I work in a hospital, I see young girls, no less then 30 a week all coming in for the same thing. If I would ever I mean ever catch my daughter having s_x at a young age or getting pregnant I would make her have an abortion. I will not take care of my grandchild while she is at school. I'm not a babysitter !! My daughter knows better, she is not exposed to all of this c___p and to have an open relationship with her is the best thing for the both of us. If she wants to experience with s_x, she knows to ask for condoms and go onto the pill. I can't stop her from doing that, but I can control the open relationship that we have together. Girls, that’s all I have so say. If you end up pregnant, that’s your fault, don't blame it on the world when there is nobody to help you with the baby. You did this to yourself, ONLY YOU HAVE CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE AND IM SICK OF SEEEING AND HEARING OF BABIES THAT ARE KILLED AND LEFT WITH THEIR GRANDPARENTS. Start taking responsibility for your actions and do not bring an innocent child into this world when your not capable. Women should always be in control !!! We have s_x when we want to have s_x. Most men only want into your pants because you are willing to open your legs and when a little one comes, who's the first to run away ?? Please take this, understand all of this and make sure to make the right decision. I hope for those girls that are pregnant and or have a child that your family is there for you. The lord is here to listen; you'd be surprised how much he loves us all and NEVER be ashamed to talk to him. He has guided me into the right decisions more than once. I'm no bible thumper but I believe.

It's okay. I am 17 and I have babies and I can tell you it's hard. I love my kids and wouldn't change anything about my life for the world. But you are still young. I was 15 myself when I first got pregnant and I am lucky enough to be with a man that loves me and our kids. He supports us wholeheartedly. But if you want something that will be yours to love, try to get a puppy or a kitten. They are not a baby, I know, but you will miss out on so much if you have a child now. I can't go to the movies, or out to eat or anywhere unless I take them with me or find a sitter. Not to mention when you have a baby, you never have money for yourself. My husband has a job and about 98% of what he makes goes on our kids. You may think you want a baby but I a__sure you that if you have one now, you will love it dearly but resent the fact you never had a childhood when you get older. Not to mention that some people don't realize it, but babies only start out as babies! Then toddlers, then kids...

TO SHERRY. hi sherry i am fine how are you? i had to do a pregnancy test a month or two ago as i thought i was pregnant, but it was negative, i'm no longer with the guy so i suppose that's a good thing! i hope you had a good christmas and new year love always xx

Im 15 and im pregnant, about 8 months now. I hated the first 4 months because i was sick, u should wait until you're older because if u like going out, you won't want to go anywhere like i didnt. Almost every time i ate something I would throw it up, and you need to remember to take your prenatal pill every day. It sucked for me because I would get sick from those too...So I say that you should wait so you don't have to go through all of that.

Hey Nat, I got pregnant at 18, had my baby 2 months ago at 19. I wouldn't take her back for the world...BUT I think 15 is too young. I know you feel you really want a baby, and they are really great...but they are also ALOT of work. You need to finish highschool, get a job..party it up! You are so young...Enjoy your youth while you can! =)