19 And Having Troubles

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nikki11 - September 19

Hey everyone... im 19 and have been with my fiance 3 yrs. we have been ttc for 8 months with no luck.... i am so depressed at the moment. all we want is to have children and it seems that its not working that way. so i am praying that it will happen soon.. wish me luck cheers xo BUBY DUST to all

 

mnl - September 20

just keep praying...you should see ur doctor..they can either offer pills or ideas to help one get pregnant...sometimes the unexpected happens.....=) just be patient......

 

renexoxcathlene - October 3

Hi nikki11 Please e-mail me at renexoxcathlene@hotmail.com

 

Ani - October 4

you are too young. Keet trying and spend your energy to something else like studing and making your own career.

 

flower.momma - October 4

Well Ani, that wasn't helpful. If she has been TTC for 8 months, she seems pretty set in her decision and is probably not going to listen to you (not that she should anyway). Nikki, if you have been TTC for 8 months and have had no luck, you may want to speak to a doctor. Have you been charting your BBT and cervical mucous? How often have you been having s_x? I know it sounds counterintuitive, but many specialists advise having s_x every other day, rather than every day around your most fertile times. That is what finally kind of worked for us after 5 months TTC.

 

Cherry Blossom - October 4

Good luck nikki ...I'm 22 and I'm trying to conceive as well. Perhaps you should consult a fertility clinic...that's what I'll do if I don't get pregnant within 6 months. G'luck again.

 

BeckyBunny - November 5

I am 19 and I have been married for two years, ttc for 4, after a m/c in april. 19 is NOT too young to have kids. Do you have a date set to get married? Good luck to you. God will bless us with children when we are ready.

 

lawlady72 - November 6

lot's of luck to you *~*~*BABYDUST*~*~*

 

ELO - November 7

I was with my ex-boyfreind for 5 1/2 yrs and never got pregnant. 2 1/2 yrs later and I met my fiance it took us 11 months to get pregnant. It usually takes about a year to conceive. After 1 yr then you should go to the doctor, if you go sooner then they will tell you to keep trying until you reach a year. I would go to the doctor to get a physical and make sure you are in your best shape to get prenant. I wish you all the best!

 

whatisgoingon - November 13

Some women conceive straight away others can take upto a year or even more to conceive. Whenever your body is right and whenever is destined for you, everything happens for a reason. I think you should cheer up, because it WILL happen for you sweety, and you want to give your body the best chance of conceiving and stress/other factors can inhibite this. So enjoy ttc and dont feel so anxious about it all. :) Have faith in your body and your partner, give it some time. If you are really worried you and your partner should go to the Dr and have some fertility tests done to rule out anything being wrong. This is usually a good idea to do before ttc, puts your mind at ease. :) Chin up hunny, you will be a mummy in no time, I know it!! xo

 

LakinAllen - November 15

Seriously whoever says 19 is to young is a dumba__s it is not about your age as much as it is your life and how stable emotionally, financially and relationship wise you are. I am 19 been with my husband 3 yrs married for 1. We are about to give birth to our 1st baby girl in 3 weeks and I LOVE my life. I will admit pregnancy is hard on your body and finances but we love each other so so so much and work our a__ses off to support our lil baby coming. I probally would not have minded to wait a yr or two now i am preg. but before I was dieing to get preg. We tried for 6 months got preg and I m.c. then we kinda thought we would leave it to god to decide and got preg. a yr after my m.c. If you have a good spouse it makes a 100% diffrence I do not think I could have gone thru all this by myself.

 

bekah05_lp - November 15

I second that, LakinAllen. I am also 19 been with fiance for almost 4 years. We haven't been ttc but we think we may be preg. if so.. I'm excited!

 

whatisgoingon - November 15

yippee Bekah!!!!! Nikki I know you will soon too, some women take a good year, so dont stress!! :) Hope all goes to plan and just was you wish, keep us posted on your progress Nikki and Bekah and let us know your results!! CONGRATZ Bekah!! xo

 

bekah05_lp - November 15

thanks whatisgoinon..sorry i dont know your real name! i'm a little confused. i think i may be spotting. i'm new to all of this so i don't know! anyways i'll keep an update.

 

Tapanga - November 17

It took my husband and I almost a year to conceive our second child. I think it's really important just to relax and have fun (plus maybe that will make the wait seem shorter!) That said, it is usually reccomended to see a doctor after the one year mark.

 

jenn00 - January 15

im sorry baby dust to you and good luck ive been tryin for a year in a half now and no luck it is very depressing and i know how you feel but i hope this cheers you up alot of baby mags and websites says the average couple takes a year to get pregnant

 

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