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i just have one ? for you all ... who come to you my age determinds what kind of mother I will be? Im not trying to be a b!tch or anything....its a serious ?
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I don't think age itself determines what kind of mother someone will be. There are good teenage mothers and horrible older mothers. I do not think that teenagers should try to get pregnant on purpose though. Too many teenage pregnancies are a burden on everyone else and the child does not grow up in a stable home. It is far better to live your life first and have a child later. But that does not mean that if you end up in a situation and become a teenage mother that you are destined to be a bad mom. It just means you are gonna have a rough ride ahead and have to work extra hard. But it can most certainly be done.
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I totally argee with you.
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The problem is, WANTING one is NOT ENOUGH. At a young age.... you are NOT READY. Yes, there are some great teen moms out there... but they are in the minority. There is NOTHING WRONG with wanting a baby. But wait until you and everything about you is ready. Have a childhood. Experience adulthood. Have a reliable, long term partner, and an income and home for your child. Then, by all means, have your baby
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I am glad to see that some people will not be numb to that fact that some of us out there ARE trying. A majority of teen parents are giving us good ones a bad name. Most teem moms (or even older moms in my town) leave their kids with whoever just because they want to run around. I for one don't do that for 3 reasons. 1. I do not like leaving my kids because I want to run around. It would make me feel guilty knowing that my kids were being babysat because I care about what I want to do more. 2. I never had the desire to go out and party, so why try to create a bad habit now? 3. Even if I did want to go out I would much rather know my kids are going to have diapers next week than know I got my night of freedom. I know it's hard work, but it's more rewarding than anything else in the world. To the teens who are being selfish and have kids, please rethink your stance. if you are 12-18 and have kids already and want to go out and party remember this :you will have your mid to late 30's and every age past that to party. You will only have your child be a child for 18 years. And to the teens who are doing their best and thinking of their kids, keep your heads up, one day your kids are going to be young men and women following your example. Goodluck Ladies. :o)
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