What Do You Think -pg112255948618
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I am soon to be 21 years old and am so ready to have a baby! I have been with my bf for 2 + years he loves kids but is not sure if he is ready for a baby in the house just yet I think if it happens he would change his mind though especially since he has a daugher from a previous relationship and wasn't ready for that eiher but is a great father and loves her to death. We have unprotected s_x and I am not on any form of bc and he knows that.I am almost done with school and he has a very successfu business. Do you think that is too young to start a family please help any suggestions would help.
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I think you should talk to him more, it sounds to me like you are pushing him to be a father and thats not good now just because he is a good dad to his daughter does not mean he will be there for you people change, i think having a child is a two party choice not one and if you decide to go along and get pregant just be prepared if he doesn't want to be there, you never know.
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Although he already has a child and is a good dad, that doesn't mean he wants to be a dad again just yet. If the two of you have real love then you can wait until he is ready. Be patient. Put the shoe on the other foot. What if he really wanted you to have a child but you didn't want to? You'd expect him to wait right? On the otehr hand, if he doesn't want another baby just yet and he knows you are not taking birth control then that boy had better decide what HE is going to do as far as birth control. It's not just a woman's job! If he doesn't want you to get pregnant, he'd better take some steps to ensure that doesn't happen!
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