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after being on my own bringing my 4 children up for 17yrs i met and married a wonderful man who had no children , i was sterilized after my 4th child thinking i would never meet anybody who would want children,BUT I DID! i then had a reversal (costing £4,500) i took colmid and i got pregnant striaght away ,only to lose the baby at 12 weeks.6yrs down the line we have had one go on donor IVFwith no result,SHOULD WE TRY AGAIN?AM I FOOLING MYSELF?AM IM GOING TO SPEND ANOTHER 5,0000 FOR FALSE HOPE,!!!!! i hope not . please advise me,or try and understand how i feel thankyou .
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Only you can decide if you want to give it one last try. I wish I could tell you that it will work, but there is no way I can know that. If you really feel in your heart that you need to do this, then go for it. But don't do it if it's going to cause money problems/arguments between you and your husband. Anything is possible sweetie. Did you go over the probabilities of concieving with your doctor? Besides your age are there other special circ_mstances that will cause you not to concieve? There are many women out there that do not concieve on the first try. Discuss things over with your husband and decide what's best for the both of you. I know you would love to have your own child that is your own flesh and blood but have you considered adoption? Maybe when you have exhausted all your options. Good luck and I hope things work out for the best
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hi my sister she is 53 y and she did ivf for 3 times did not work but she did 1 more time the 4 she got pregnant and she just delivert 2 babys 1 boy and 1g so good luck and go for it
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gee 53 and had twins... ... manerpors starts midd 40 dosent it
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It's not unheard of for a woman your age to have a perfectly healthy baby, it may be harder to get there however. Also, be aware that your chances for genetic defects are much higher. Beyond that, if your doctor feels your chances are good and that it's worth another shot, why ask us? Go for it girl!
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Hi, I understand what you feel, 45 is not too old to get pregnant. Don't loose hope. Good luck.
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