Had Sex Last Night Please Help

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Karen S - May 21

I need some advice last night I did something bad:( me and my bf had a really good time last night infact too good of time:) We ended up having s_x. It's only been 2 1/2 weeks since the baby. Since I had a c-section do you think Im ok? It didn't hurt but now this morning Im having some side pain nothing big though. I also started to bleed again:( thats always a bumer but I just stopped bleeding yesterday. I just worry that we may have messed up something. Please help with you advice I know it was stupid but now that it's over and done with do you think everything is ok?

 

olivia - May 21

You're probably fine. The soreness is probably from the moving around, and the bleeding is most likely just that you never really stopped from the c-section. (usually you bleed on and off for about 6 weeks, the more activity you do, the more you bleed). Anyway, if you have any symptoms of infection, such as a fever, or swelling, call your doctor. Did you use a condom or some sort of birth control? After you have a baby your v____a is generally dry and gritty (natures way of spacing out babies) -- so you might have soreness in there too. Glad you are feeling well after your surgery. Be careful, try to wait a few weeks for more s_x so you can heal up, and congratulations on your baby!

 

olivia - May 21

<remember, even though you feel good, there are seven layers of stiches under your scar to heal, so you have a long way to heal!>

 

Karen S - May 21

Thanks Olivia no I wont be having s_x anytime soon:) It was just a fluke like thing that it happened. Thanks for you advice:)

 

Rhonda - May 28

Karen,im not one to be giving advice b/c i started having s_x 3days after i got out of the hospital.I know it is better to wait at least 6wks,but i did'nt.So if you can wait that would be best.

 

jamiew - May 28

Wow! You ladies are brave LOL .. My 1st time after the c-section was probably about 9 weeks .. it hurt so bad! I was in pain for a long time after .. I still have probs having s_x ... I cant imagine 3 days after LOL ...

 

Rhonda - May 28

I had more pain after s_x also,but like a moron i still kept doing it.I also had a little more bleeding.I should have waited longer but im thankful i got no infection.But it is best to wait.I was not brave,just stupied.

 

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