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To Tara i had a c-section 10 mos ago and i've noticed some pulling i went to the doctors and they told me sometimes it can be your nerve endings so, but if your really concerned i would go see your doctor just in case. i also had a c-section and had similiar feelings, and it's probably your uterus stretching, so try and relax and congrats!!!

Well I had my first via c-section and 6 months later I got pregnant with my second. I am definatly going for a VBAC this time. I am also Gestaional Diabetic while I am pregnant. Good luck everyone attempting a VBAC. I hope mine goes well, and your to.

Steven, Please don't delay in getting help for your wife and daughter. Her behavior seems to be getting worse and if I were you, I would be afraid for your daughter. Please talk to a professional right away.

To Steven I am shocked at what i just read your wife calls the baby a B___h I strongly suggest you get that woman help!!!!!!! I would be scared for my childs life PLEASE PROTECT THAT LITTLE ANGEL!!!!!! your wife might hurt her thats not love calling your child names' she be scarred for loife if you don't do something. I would take this to court as soon as possible' thats not being a fit mother at all' what state do you live in???? any idea how the courts are there??? well keep in touch okay?? I will pray for you, don't be afraid to do something. I would'nt tell your wife anything about taking her to court..... she might go psycho!!!! SERIOUSLY!!!!!

Aliyah, you can be happy. It will work out. I got pg last month and was looking at having a second c-section LESS THAN A YEAR after my first section! We weren't ttc (got pg on the pill), but I was still happy even though there were so many reasons why the timing was bad. I lost my baby around 6 weeks and I was devastated. I would love to be in your shoes right now... please feel the freedom to be happy. But also, call your OB and make an appt as soon as you can. Good luck!

Mellissa,hi i live in missouri.i dont really know much about the court system.i never had to go to court or anything.but my wife shes been several times but of course it was before we got together.but ya here anymore she calls the baby a b___h.i told her our daughter is not a b___h and if she wanted to see a b___h just go look in the mirror.well brenda got real p__sed off slapped me and accused me of wanting to be s_xual with our daughter.i wanted so bad to hit her(my wife of course)but i dont want to get arrested.im gonna have to do something its pretty serious.i do worry about my daughter.up until recently i thought see took real good care of madison but now im not so sure.what would my first step be to get something done?

To Steven my husbands brothers live in missouri, they might have some idea about the courts. i'm not really sure were you should start. maybe you should talk to a lawyer, maybe they can give you a starting point. did your wife have someone abuse her?? if so she needs to talk to someone who can help her deal with it. I really do feel bad for you. my husband is in the process of adopting my son Ihad with someone else, but we have a 10 mos old together. anyways! you should do something really soon!! Is there anyone in your family you can trust to talk tell whats going on!!! this is really serious..... don't wait any longer to do something. does your wife know your telling everyone this???? if so I would like to talk to her.... I promise I'll be nice!! well keep me informed okay... Good Luck!!!!

OK Steven, Here it is.....I don't care what kind of family she came from something abusive happened to her...that is the kind of behavoir that comes from someone whos been abused. I hate to tell you this, but unless she gets help or you get a good laywer you are in trouble and things aren't going to change. You need to be careful of her acusing you of wanting to do s_xual things with your daughter because if sometime she gets mad enough she may just tell the authorities that, then whos in trouble?? you need to go behind her back and get a laywer or go to legal aid and tell your story so you can either get your crazy wife help or get custody of your daughter and be her father. I know you are scared because you say you don't know the first thing about taking care of a child, but you will be ok, your her dad, it will come to you all naturally. Do you even realize what you are doing to your daughter, mentally, by letting this go on? She will grow up to be like your wife, and probably not love you if this keeps going on. Is that what you want? i know you care about your wife but the truth is that you need to think about that little girl- she is the MOST important in this situation. PLEASE, hear me out, and do something whether your wife likes it or not. If you take action on your own and tell someone legal what is going on in your home that, yes, you will have a better chance of getting custody of your child OR your wife may realize that she needs help and seek it. So, please don't wait any longer do something, think about the life of your daughter and unborn child before its too late. Good Luck

To Steven I agree with Barb 100% do something now..... Children are so precious, don't be afraid you'll do fine raising your kids.. you have family that can help you. My husband and I got a positive test today so we think and pray we are pregnant.... we are really excited!!!! So please do something now your wife needs help.... this is the best thing you can do for your family.. well with this said I hope you take this advice seriously.. let me now if you did something.. GOOD LUCK!!!

melissa;congratulations im happy for you guys.yes barb is right.and as a matter of fact i did do something.i took a tape recorder and hid it in the living room sunday and as soon as my wife came in she put the baby in her room as usual and while she was doing that i turned the recorder on when she came in the living room she said to me why are you in the living room.i told her i am recording the conversation we are about to have.she just laughed and rolled her eyes.i told her i wanted to hold madison she went nuts and screamed and yelled at me.i said why wont you let me be a dad.she said because you dont need to be around some nasty female.then she went on about how its my fault she had a girl instead of a boy.but on tape i got her to say i never did anything s_xual with our daughter.i got her to say enough important stuff that hopefully i can use against her.i also told her i want a divorce she cried and begged me to change my mind so i told her i would consider it if she would let me be involved in madisons life and i told her her behavior is not normal and i want to get help for her.she said shes scared and she would die if i left her.she said she would go talk to a physciatrist.i do love my wife but i think she needs to get help from inside a state hospital for a while.but i still dont know if i want to stay with her or not.even if she dose get help and gets better but im still keeping that tape i recorded just in case i do need it.if she is really serious about getting help would i be doing the right thing by staying with her and keeping our family together or should i just walk away?she never before said yes to getting help but i never told her i would divorce her if she didnt get help and if things didnt change.

To Steven well If she's willing to get some help you should consider staying with her, I don't believe in divorce... but if she keeps it up maybe you two should separate... for awhile. she acts like something happened to her when she was little... I know how she feels, but I not going to get into detail. I know your wife has problems but maybe she can't tell something, it's possible. she honestly needs to talk to someone... a phyciatrist may not be the best choice. there stupid!!!! I don't know personally but I heard how dumb they can be!!! but it's worth a try I suppose. well let me know how things are going, good luck!!! it's been confirmed i am expecting again!!! i'm estactic!!!! I'm praying for a girl, I have two boys already... a 4 yr. old and a 10 mos. old. so hopefully!!!! well goodbye for now.

am sorry for nice mothers that lost their children, belive me they were not met to be yours.i had an emergency c-section 5weeks ago, i stopped the normal discharge before 2weeks, but i starting bleeding last night could this be my period in just 5weeks of delivery? am scared can someone say something to help me? am b___stfeeding..

To Lucy if I were you I would call your doctor and find out if this is normal they might wanna see you, i had a c-section 10 mos ago and i never had a problem like this. but then again every womans body is different. so call your doctor.

melissa, thanks so much for the advise i called my doctor and he said that might be my period and is normal but am just wondering how that can be, i have never heard of it, 5weeks? my period is back?

melissa thanks, i called my doctor and he said that should be my period and is normal, but am wondering how that can happen i have never heard of it. 5weeks after c-section? am back to my normal period that is astratious,

Steven i am amazed by some of the things i have heard you say about your wife...i dont know how someone could act that way, and you DO NOT deserve that....i am sorry that this has happened to you...you need to do something before she hurts your sweet little girl or that new baby....please dont ignore it and hope it will get better b/c it wont until she receives some help....i think you should try and work it out if you can get help for her but if she is not willing...then the best thing you can do it to see a lawyer about getting your children....also make sure you get as much evidence as you can so that she does not try to say you did something to your children that you did not.....i am really sorry for all that has happened to you and i hope things get better....