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you tell her marcie...good on ya!
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Tell who? What? Seems like everyone was trying to get along until you posted.
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Hi everyone. I'm trying to get pregnant and when I do I will be contemplating a c section. I had a horrible birth with my first son 13 years ago. This was a natural birth. My second son 19 months ago was delivered by emergency c section. I had planned on another natural birth with him but after many hours of labour, it was not to be. My dilemma now is...Do I try for another natural or should I just have another c section. My natural was absolutely terrible and so was the labour for my second son. What should I do?
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Be glad that most of us have the choice to give birth the way we want. Some have medical conditions where your forced to have a c-section. I think all us ladies know when we get pregnant that theres bound to be a little pain involved. But dont we all think the babie is worth it? We just all have to go in hoping everything does go well. and hopefully it does.
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Gave me a sleepy, breathing a__sisted baby girl who was smaller for dates then they estimated, by a whole pound! She spent 2 weeks in the NICU with needles in her tiny head and breathing help for an elected c-section. The reason? We took her at 37 weeks so I wouldn't go into labor (like were supposed to....) and she got picked from the tree a bit early and not quite ripe. So my duaghter was made premature by me and my esteemed expert who supports pt. choice c-sections for those who pay extra. Sounds like a racket to me. The best part? My uterus didn't like the surgery and now it is in a lab bottle. No more kids for me. The pain was way more diffiult than my other labor.
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even though you read stories like the one above, you also get good stories same with a v____al birth...go with what you feel I would opt for a "c" I do not have to go into my reasons as they have already been discussed.
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Thanks for the empathy, Carol. You are right, since you would opt for the C, I am invalidated by your snippy, dismissive tone. The baby is doing better, thanks. At least I cared that my regrettable choice affected my baby. Typical response from you.
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