13 And I Am 6 Monyhs And Not Showing
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Tikka... Don't worry I'm young too I'm 3 months pregnant at 17 and I know I'm young but I have family and friends that will help me get through this ..Don't listen to the negative comments people are saying because noone is perfect..Stay strong...
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You can tell the young readers from the mature older ones... I don't think that cussing is solving anything, and I hope that those who are young mothers don't use this sort of language in front of their newborns. I am actually really bothered by the language used in this forum. I came here for answers and now I feel like I am reading smut. Anyways, I am 3 months and my pants are just a little tight, but when my sister-in-law was prego at 3 months she was already wearing maternity clothes. Guess everyone is different. By the way I am 25, and very glad that I got to enjoy my childhood and teenage years without having the responsibility of being a mother.
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Tazka I hope your not reffering to me because as I said in my last post not every one is perfect ..people make mistakes to
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No, I am not referring to you, Machia, I am referring to the ones who used bad language in the previous posts, the ones who were cursing in their replies. Yes, everyone makes mistakes, but hopefully society (teachers, tv, books, parents etc.) can educate younger audiences to stay safe and use protection if they are planning on having s_x. I hope none of the young mothers wish for their own babies to grow up and have babies at early ages. So, if I were a young mom I would make it a point to teach my children to be safe and use condoms or get on the pill if they are planning to have s_x. But what can I say stuff happens, but there is no need for hatred or cursing.
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Thats true some of the people on here thinks cussin is going to the solve the problem but it really isn't its just making the the young ones angry and they will start to think noone cares so they go out and do the same things over and over again ..when my child is born I'm going to teach him or her that s_x isn't all thats popped up to be it has consquences ..sorry for accusing you of that ...
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You know, this is my first time on this Web Site. I'm over 30 and thought this was a pregnancy Web Site for mature "women" not children. I have to say that I don't like to judge and yes we do make mistakes throughout life, however I have a 13 year old daughter and would probably die if she came to me and told me she was pregnant. I spend a lot of time with her talking to her about s_x, diseases, loving her body and treating like her temple. She's very mature looking for her age and it scares the heck out of me! These are not the times to play with your young lives. I honestly have to say that I sort of agree with Tarah. I really do hope that Tikka has a great support system cause honey, I've been married for 13 years, have a 13 year old daughter and am 5 months pregnant - it's hard taking care of children. While there's nothing you can do about being pregnant now, there are other alternatives after you give birth. Your young body are just not completely developed, physically or mentally. If you don't have someone at home to support you completely, please consider other options that's available to you after you deliver your baby. You deserve to enjoy the rest of your teen years, like going to your prom, going to high school dances etc. I do wish I lived in your area, because regardless of what you say, and all the cursing; every young person needs someone to talk to and support whether you're pregnant or not. My heart and prayers goes out to you and the rest of the young ladies who think it's the in thing to be baby making machines. -Love and Peace
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Tikka you shouldn't be worrying about u not showing u need to worry about the unborn baby u need to know how your going to support the baby after it is born your going to also need help from family or friends because raising a baby is not fun and games you need to do whats right for you and the baby...
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The more of these things that you are, young, first time, slender, tall, the higher chance that you wont show for a long time.
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i'm 16 and i'm 8 months pregnent. i started showing at 5 months.this is my 2nd baby
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you can't tell teenagers (woops, my bad... even PRE-TEENAGERS in this case) nothing anyway. let her navigate through this by her lonesome. this post has been here since the ice ages anyway, so little miss poster child for babies having babies has had her bundle of joy now and is probably working on the second (or third) one now. here's a clue...invest your time in some barbie dolls instead of having s_x.
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GOOD SOMEONE NEEDED TO SAY THAT..I dont think she was ever pregnant I think it was some immature teen with time on their hands posting lies...
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If you are small and not showing yet I think that might be something to be concerned about because small people usually show quickly. I hope your not hiding it and if you are please go to a doctor.
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I'm 18years old and I want to have a baby.It's been 3months now and I'm still not pregnant
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Jasmine, make sure you're ready for a baby first. THen plan it, with an ovulation calendar.
I'm 19, and pregnant with my son. He is due oct 30th, i'm really not ready but I wanted a baby so bad.. god gave me one, and now i'm taking things one day at a time.. really... make sure you are ready before you plan this.
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QUOTE: "so little miss poster child for babies having babies has had her bundle of joy now and is probably working on the second (or third) one now. here's a clue...invest your time in some barbie dolls instead of having s_x." Although i agree that 13 is a young age Im not here to judge.I dont believe that it will solve anything at all.. Surely mothers to be and already mother will understand that this is a hard time so dont you think it would be wise to say the least to be supportive whther you agree to it or not. This girl came on here for advice and help not a witch-hunt and if she cant get that from you guys... then have we all became inhumane and unsympathetic?, I hope that everything is fine.. Did none of you think that your words may have a huge impact on her decisions and i hope that peoples negativity has not doubt the whole pregnancy. Im pregnant myself at the age of 21 though im only 10 wks. ive never been more scared in my life though ive decided to keep it even though me and my bf have split up after a long relationship & he insists i get rid. All i can say is. congrats to everyone who is expecting, of have had a child. and for every one to take care not only of yourself!!!.
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well were you Fat to begian with ?? if not then ask your doctor
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