Advice On Guy Problems

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pathetic fights - June 22

I was hoping i could get a little advice even know its not completely about my pregnancy.I am 22 weeks pregnant with my second baby.My daughter and i stay with my 24 year old boyfriend at his moms house.She hates my guts and she tries her best to make me miserable.I never let her get to me.I keep telling my boyfriend that i want out of this enviorment but he just dont seem to want to listen.He goes to work at a labor hall almost every morning but he hardly ever has money.I try to tell him to save up so we can move but all he ever has to say is that he wants to get a car first.We are about to have a baby and hes worried about getting a car instead of a better place to live and baby stuff.This morning he refused to get up and go to the labor hall even know he owes money to a few people.We are getting to where we argue atleast 1 time a day but i dont want to leave him.I keep telling him that he has until the baby is born to get me out or ill leave him.He dont seem to understand and i think he thinks im just saying that but even know i have about 3 and a half months left i have had enough.I am seriously thinking of moving back in with my mom until i can get a job and my own place to stay.Am i wrong for pushing him so hard? I dont want to give up on him but i know hes not going to change.I feel like i have no other option but to tell him that when he gets a job and a place to stay of his own then call me but until then ill just see him when i see him.Is it wrong to do this even know im pregnant by him?

 

maya - June 22

HI! I think your doing the right thing by telling him that seems like he don't care at all Im sorry to say that as long as you guys are at his mom's house his not gonna change if he cared he would at least give you money to buy stuff for the baby...you don't need someone like that it might not be good adivce for me to tell u to leave but do it leave don't wait for you to have the baby you are just giving him more time to do what he wants... My brother was the same with my sis-law till she left him with out telling him...he hasn't changed all he cares is about himself...some change but some don't think about it.....it's you and ur kids that matter not him....

 

Jessicca - June 23

I'm sorry to say but I would leave him. He really doesn't care about you or the baby. He's selfish! I would stay at another family members home until he wants to change and become a man instead of a boy! I hope you the best...leave him that's the only way you'll be happy. You really don't need all this stress...let us know how your doing. Good luck!

 

Merry - June 27

Fist of all I'm so sorry that your going through this. I went through the same thing when I was 20 my ex boyfriend and I were staying at his mom house and he could have cared less about the baby he wanted me to get an abortion but't I wouldn't. So he ended up leaving me for another women. I would tell your boy friend he has until a certain time to shape up or you'll leave him. I would also pray to God about this he knowns what your going through and he can haddle it. If you like I can add you to my prayer list. Well stay strong God Bless

 

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