Boyfriend Wants An Abortion And I Dont

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steph11 - March 19

Im about 12 weeks and the thought of aborting had been in my mind well maybe forced into..my boyfriend i have been dating for 1 year now has a million reasons why we shouldn't keep the baby. He already has a a 2 year old and tells me he rushed into this one and desnt want to do the same..I agree with him 100%, but every time I think about abortion my heart tells me NO. I have had abortions in my past and do regret them, but I love my bf more than anything in this world I don't want to pressure him and make him unhappy i'm soooooo lost and scared I don't know what to do

 

Grandpa Viv - March 20

Tough. It appears you have subconsciouly decided that keeping the baby is more important than keeping the boyfriend. Is this a live-in boyfriend and will you be financially dependent on him?

 

steph11 - March 20

I dont want to choose the baby over my boyfriend i want to be happy and make the right decision i will be able to go on mat leave.

 

Grandpa Viv - March 21

Sympathy, Steph. Few women approach the abortion decision without misgivings, but nevertheless many end up deciding it is the right thing to do. This is not a decision you should put off any longer. Time is running out.

 

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