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Marissa- sweet heart. I read your post & this is my opinion. I think it is definitely too early to tell. It is possible that you could be- u are probably gonna have to play the waiting game- never fun :(. But eventually u will know for sure. If it ends up thatyou are not please allow me to give you some advice- i am 31 now. I was a very young mother. I would not change have her but had i gotten to have her like now in my life- it would have made life easier. I love her with all my heart- but i missed out on a lot. One reason i got pregnant ( i know now) is b/c i was trying to fill a void. I did not really have a good family setting & i was searching for love in all the wrong places. Anyways- all i am trying to say is - yes- you will definitely be ok either way but there are sometimes easier paths than the one that we think will solve our problems. This is what it is like having a baby at your age: we have & fall in love with baby, no $ to take care of; always wishing we could do more; after a couple of months playing mom, we get the itch- missing being free. A i am hoping is that if this ends up being a scare- please put a lot of thought into having a baby. Stay on birth control if you are truly not wanting a baby. I hope all works out- you seem like a great woman! All will be ok

awe thank you, i just really need someone to talk to. I would LOVE to have a kid, sure it may not be the right timing right now because i have so much to do but maybe it will push me a little faster to get things done. I'm not too worried about having a place to live anymore because my boyfriend told me he wouldn't mind getting a place and living together as long as i work and that's not a problem. He's been through alot in his life, dying in car accidents and coming back and goes to counseling. I just don't want him to take it too hard on himself. And sure a typical 18 year old like me likes to go out and party every night. but the thing is i won't miss my freedom.. I don't do anything but spend time with my boyfriend. i don't drink i don't smoke i don't do anything. even though people say i look like i would do that stuff, but i dont. and if i am pregnant, after i have the baby and all of that stuff i won't have to worry if if me and him want to go out on a friday because plenty of people in my family would love to take the baby.. and for once in my life i'm happy and not really that scared about it. I'm just scared of the long 9 months and being sick lol

oh and another thing i just found out i have a uti so i have to take a antibiotic and that will cancel out my birth control. oh well.

I got it .It's pretty easy to understand. Thanks.

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