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I am desperate for another baby, I have tried and tried to talk to my hubby about this but he will not budge! He is an accountant so constantly reminds me how much it costs to raise a child. I get that I really do, but the older I'm getting the more I feel that the choice of having another baby is being taken away from me. Yes I am blessed already I have 3 beautiful children who I love with every ounce of my being, but I just don't feel complete. We both have good jobs, own our own house and cars. There is no problem with having another child. But the more I talk to him the more he seems to dig his heels in! He even told me if I was that desperate to have another baby then maybe we should break up ????. Of course that didn't go down well with me! I responded with I want YOUR baby not anyone else's! But even though he is so against having another baby we don't use contraceptives and he won't have the snip! The only reason I'm not already pregnant is because he uses the withdrawal method. I have told him that it isn't fool proof and I would not terminate if I fell pregnant. I have seriously considered accidentally falling pregnant. But I don't think it's fair to my hubby along with I don't know I could handle the guilt. ???? 

What really makes me sad is he is such an amazing father, I know he would love another baby once it were here as much Ashe does the others. 

Umm, could he be going through a mid life crisis and is sometimes thinking what it would be like to experience freedom again? The thought of paying child support for four children rather than three is holding him back? Maybe he is just looking forward to an empty nest and the freedom to travel.

Don't panic! Marriages go through these ups and downs and survive to become stronger. It sounds like yours is basically on a firm footing. Pull out sex and the rhythm method both have a failure rate of once every four years. Quit lestering him and let nature take its course.