URGENT: Have A Disturbing Situation And NEED Advice!!!!

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Confused224 - May 18

I am 28 and tutor a group of middle school students at a tutoring center. At the center, one of the middle school boys had his hands under the table. He was clearly playing with himself (his face was red). I asked him to put his hands on the table, I cued my whole group so I didn't embarrass him, and he did. But then he put his hands down there again. I cued him a few more times. He then was making a motion on his hand liek he had something sticky on them. I asked him if he needed to wash his hands, he said no.

We work on iPads. He had touched his iPad after this situation, and then I touched the iPad because I corrected his work. There was no sanitizer around, so I had to use the iPad. After the session was done, about 10 minutes later, I went and told my director. I still hadn't washed my hands. 

I then got sidetracked because a teacher asked me something. I went to the bathroom and went to go wipe myself, and accidentally touched myself down there with the hand I had had on the iPad. 

Could this get me pregnant???? I am worried that if there was remnants of somethign on the iPad, and I touched it, and then wiped and touched myself down there, that I could possibly have put sperm close to me and could be pregnant. I think I am ovulating, too, so I am EXTREMELY concerned.

My frien told me to take Plan B, but I don't want to do that and mess up my cyle if this is really far fetched. I also that mentally, it will be tough for me to say "I had to take plan B because of a middle schooler". But, if I can get PREGNANT, and I do get pregnant, I will have a VERY hard time because I am not for an abortion myself (dont judge those who do), and it is not something I woudl want. 

HELP ME PLEASE!!!!

 

Grandpa Viv - May 18

No way! The semen has to be fresh and wet before there is cause for concern. 

How did the director suggest you should handle this kind of situation going forward. Should you perhaps ask him to stay behind for a minute after class to bluntly tell him that some behaviors are best done in privacy?

 

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